Ask Marni
The female perspective on dating.
Real answers to the real questions men are afraid to ask.
22+ years
of helping men understand women, attraction and relationships.
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Texting
What to say, when to say it, what to never send.
10 questions →Dating Apps
Profiles, openers, matches that go somewhere.
5 questions →Masculinity
Strength without apology or aggression.
5 questions →Older Men
Dating well in your 40s, 50s and beyond.
6 questions →Commitment
Getting from dating to something real.
4 questions →Marriage
Keeping desire alive after the wedding.
4 questions →Divorce
Starting over, and doing it better.
4 questions →Popular questions
How do I create sexual tension over text?
Texting
How do I keep sex exciting in a long-term relationship?
What are the daily habits of masculine men?
Masculinity
How do I know if I’m ready to date after divorce?
Divorce
How do I know if a woman on a dating app is genuinely interested?
Dating Apps
How do I stop being ‘too available’ to female friends?
How do I stop overthinking around women?
How do I know if she’s interested over text?
Texting
How do I have the ‘what are we’ talk without ruining it?
Commitment
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