I want to ask YOU an important question. A question that’s been on my mind a lot lately. And that is… “What do YOU want?”
The reason I ask you this question is because it’s the ultimate key to being a master with women. Let me explain how.
You see, I’ve been coaching guys for 21 years now. And literally the most common mistake I see men make with women… is that they neglect and hide their own desires.
For instance… A guy might find a woman really attractive. He might want to have a sexual relationship with her. But instead of letting her know what he really wants… He acts like he’s just there to be her friend.
Why? Because he’s trying to be polite and nice. He doesn’t wanna look like a guy who’s just trying to get in her pants. He wants to be a gentleman.
But here’s the problem. Being a gentleman doesn’t mean you don’t go for what you want. That’s just weak and unattractive.
Say you’re on a date with a woman and you avoid holding her hand, going for a kiss, inviting her back to your place… You’re NOT being a gentleman.
She’s not gonna go home thinking he’s such a respectful guy. I love him. She’s gonna go home thinking there was no spark. Because for a woman to feel that sexual spark and primal attraction for a man… He needs to be playing the masculine role.
Which means, he needs to be an unapologetic leader and go after what he wants. Only when a man plays that masculine role… Only when he takes the lead can a woman relax into her feminine role.
And what’s when chemistry and attraction naturally happens. You don’t have to play games. You don’t have to learn lines. Instead women are naturally drawn to you. All because you radiate a strong masculine vibe that’s attractive to women on a primal level.
But remember it all starts with that one question… “What do YOU want?”
Whether you’re meeting a woman for the first or sitting across from her on a date… You need to own your desires as a man. And you need to go after what you want without shame, guilt or apology.
There’s nothing wrong with letting a woman know you find her attractive. Nothing wrong with wanting her number, asking for a date, holding her hand, going in for a kiss.
Nothing wrong inviting her back to your place. Whatever it is you want… Own your desires. Make no apologies for it whatsoever. And you’ll have this magnetic presence that gets women pulsing with desire.