No More Mr. Nice Guy – How to be More Attractive to Women
It's time to put an end to Mr. Nice Guy and learn how to trigger any woman's primal brain. That means actually get her attention instead of being deemed “nice” or in other words invisible.
We'll also discuss how you can instantly become ten times more interesting to a woman without having to brag or show your muscles.
We're going to do this by helping you find your…
Attraction Buzz Words
I have been thinking about this for awhile; how to help you express how interesting you are to women. The trick is how do it without being a big ol' braggy bore. Good news is I finally figured it out.
While at the gym where all my brilliant ideas come to me, I realized we all have our own buzz words that are interesting to others.
Mine are pretty obvious. I have a podcast. I coach men how to attract women. Not too long ago I went to camp for adults(yes it's a thing). And I’m Canadian.
I live in the good ol' United States where this is something different and buzz worthy.
By “buzz” I mean things that trigger the primal brain to say “What? That’s different. Tell me more”.
As soon as I bring up one of these things which are not braggy or ego driven, people turn to me and want to know more and suddenly I’m interesting to others.
Women especially love buzz words because your buzz words can tell her who you are, your unique history, and how you navigate the world.
Buzz words are an easy way to express the awesome things about you that you are proud of without being all about me, me, me.
When you use buzz words women will stop putting you in the “just a nice guy” category because you will easily catch their attention.
So what are your buzz words?
Do you ski? How about tennis? Do you like escape rooms? Are you “crime fighting” hero in the courtroom every day?
Once you finish reading be sure to put your pen to paper or finger to phone. Brainstorm the things you do and the things you are that are interesting and could be interesting to women. Then use them when in conversation with women.
Typically these are the things that are most interesting about you that you are proud to talk about and feel comfortable talking about.
Here’s how I used one of my buzz words today. I left gym class 15 minutes early or as I like to call it when “my” class ends.
The girl I’ve been slowly becoming friendly with asked where I was going and I said I have to go record my podcast.
And she said “Podcast!? Omg send it to me!” Right away I became more interesting.
Now you may think, Marni you have it so easy. What you do is just so interesting.
The truth is what you do and who you are is interesting to others because they don’t do it.
You don’t have to be a military, plane jumping, wall street type who goes to galas every weekend to be interesting.
As long as you are willing to dig a bit deeper – you can discover many interesting things about you and drop the nice guy facade.
Triggering the primal brain = No More Mr. Nice Guy!
You can trigger a woman's primal brain by figuring out your own buzz words. If after you start brainstorming you realize gosh I have no buzz words then it’s time to get out there and start doing interesting things.
A recent guest on my podcast told me that for as long as he can remember he’s been on a mission to collect as many crazy and unbelievable stories as he can so that his grandkids don’t believe him when he tells these tales later in life.
Which basically means he’s seeking out experiences.
Drop Mr. Nice Guy and seek out new experiences
It's easy for anybody to do. They just have to look and say “yes” to things instead of “no” or I'm too tired or I’ll do it later.
Your attraction buzz words give you easy things to talk about that instantly make you:
- More interesting
- Unique
- ATTRACTIVE to women
Using your attraction buzz words are just one of the many things you can do to catch a woman’s attention and make her think about you non stop.
I’ve put together a free 45 minute video that tells you exactly how to attract women by tapping into her primal brain and discovering what she really wants.
Once you understand how a woman's “attraction brain” works, you’ll quickly see how women pay attention to you, and you'll know how to keep their attention.
You’ll be just intriguing enough that the girl or girls you are talking to can only focus on you.
The sooner you know how women work, the sooner you’ll see the women you meet trying to win you over, hoping that you really do like her.
Go to www.thewinggirl.com to watch the video now, and learn how to attract women. Remember, finding the right girl doesn’t have to be hard when you understand what women really want.
Let me be your Wing Girl.
Marni
