This damn jet lag is killing me. Day 2 of 4:30 am wake up call 🙁 Just answered yet another email from a guy in Chicago who is frustrated with online dating.
Dear Marni,
I need your help with online dating. I have tried EVERYTHING and I'm just not sure what I am doing wrong. I sent out tons of emails and women don't respond to me. Is it my picture or my salary?? Not sure what's going on but I really want to know how to meet women online.
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I literally get hundreds of emails, just like this one, from guys who are frustrated and lost when it comes to online dating. They put in the time, they put up what they think is a great profile … and they send out LOTS of emails to women online.
Unfortunately, and despite all of this, a lot of guys see very little success in the online dating world. Why? Sounds like they're doing everything right, doesn't it?
Well, the truth is that there are a few cardinal mistakes, and a few *SECRETS* that, if they only knew about them, could save most of these men a LOT of time and frustration. So I'm going to reveal one of the biggest mistakes — and, better yet, one of the biggest SECRETS — to succeeding in online dating.
Remember when I said above about all the guys who send out LOTS of emails to women online (but don't get a lot of responses)? You would think that just by the law of averages that the more emails a guy sends out, the more responses he proportionately will get.
Wrong!
Well, actually, it might be right IF guys were sending out different and unique emails to each of the women. Most guys, however, will create a generic email that they will cut and paste and send to a couple hundred women online.
The truth, and a secret most guys dating online don't know, is that women NEVER respond to these kind of “generic, cut ‘n paste” emails. (ESPECIALLY those “10s” online that you most want to intrigue!)
These NEVER work! They may be time savers for your but they are instant attraction killers for women. Basically they make us women instantly lose our “hard on's”. So again, these never EVER work?! 🙂
Remember that women get hundred of emails a week (and the really hot women get more than that), so if you want to grab women's attention online you MUST intrigue them.
When I used to date online, I would receive these SPAM like emails and I would instantly delete them. Seriously.
Women KNOW when you're sending a cut and paste email. Yes, I'm sorry to tell you that when you send those generic emails you are fooling no one!
Women want to know that you've READ their profile. By eliminating the cut and paste emails, and by sending emails to women which show you've read their profile, you will make yourself stand out from the majority of other guys online.
If you want to learn EVERYTHING about how to meet women online including how to:
– Create an online profile
– Interpret women's profiles
– Contact women online
– Get a beautiful, quality woman's attention
– Know EXACTLY what to say to intrigue them … as well as what specifically will attract the hottest women online
Then be sure to check out this amazing video product by my good friend David Wygant “Secrets Of Online Dating”
To check it out (and see video previews too) Click Here!
