How To Build Sexual Tension
Would you like to know how to build sexual tension in conversation with women? First, you'll have to learn to frame your conversations so that women remain interested and engaged in what you have to say. Next, this frame will teach you how to spark desire in women and hang on your every word.
We call this psychological principle open loops or “tension loops”.
When you use this principle, you intentionally leave cliffhangers throughout your communication to create tension.
The Tension Principle
Our minds naturally look to “close loops”. It wants to find conclusions to the beginning of things.
It works with just about anything! This including getting girls so psychologically addicted to you that they can't help but chase you and hang on to every word you say.
You might be wondering how to use this principle in a day-to-day interaction with a girl. Let me paint you a scenario so you can see exactly what I mean.
NOTE: The example I’m about to give you is an example to use on younger women.
Pay attention to the theory behind the example, not the actual example.
Even thought it’s a great example, you will have to re-frame it in a version that feels right to you. You can use this online or over text as well because it actually works even better.
Here's what you say:
“You know what… I don't like you…” you look into her eyes unwavering. After that, just be silent for a moment. You can cut the tension in the air with a knife.
“What? W-Why?” she says. Then, you decide to create even MORE tension by opening yet another “tension loop”. You say, while chuckling a bit, “Sorry that didn't come out right!”
“I actually don't like you at all” you tell her this time with a giant smirk plastered on your face.
“But why?!” she slaps your arm playfully.
She's completely entranced by what you're saying.
She needs to know…WHY?!
“It actually has nothing to do with you…” you say to her.
She looks almost relieved but you can still see her eyes wide with anticipation for what's going to come out of your mouth next. As a result, you create tension by leaving her hanging and then relieve it by “closing the loop”.
Build tension, then relieve!
Doing this a few times throughout a night or a texting chain will make her absolutely addicted and she'll crave for you to keep talking.)
“It's just that you remind me of someone I absolutely hate. This girl almost ruined my life!” you say with a serious tone.
“OMG! Who's this awful girl?” she says.
She needs to know who her terrible doppelgänger is.
“The reason I don't like you is because you look exactly like this girl in second grade who used to beat me in thumb wrestling in front of my whole class all the time.” The smirk has found itself back on your face, even bigger this time around.
“HAHAHA! Oh my God, I really thought you didn't like me!” she cries out.
Next, you decide to push it even further now that the tension has been relieved.
“I REALLY don't like you…” you say to her, seriously again.
“WHYYYYY!” she's practically pawing at you to get your attention.
“There's only one way to resolve this… thumb wrestle” you say to her with a smirk. Do you see how you mount the tension and then relieve it?
And how that could get her addicted to you?
Great! Now, you don’t have to do this as many times as this example. If you are with a woman whose a little older, like 30 plus, then I’d stick to 1 or 2 tension cycles tops.
An older woman will get annoyed by them if they are not delivered in the right way at the right time.
That being said, use your own discretion and test it out to see how far you can push it.
Practice how to build sexual tension
With practice, using tension loops in your conversation will become easier and easier and make your conversations more playful and dynamic.
Tension loops are just 1 out of 100’s little psychological tactics you can use in conversation with women that can help you build attraction.
If you want to know more about psychological principles that will have her brain literally addicted to you so she can't help but CRAVE you on a deep level then I have something for you. Remember to use it wisely because it’s pretty powerful and has a similar impact on a woman’s brain that tension loops create.
Banter is the next ninja principle
Bantering is the foundation of flirting. When you use banter it shows confidence, social intelligence, and it creates a fun dynamic that women are irresistibly drawn to.
Without banter, flirting using tension loops like the example I just shared is extra difficult or pretty much impossible to build sexual tension.
Banter sets the groundwork with women and gets their serotonin juices flowing. As a result, it helps make a woman comfortable with you so that they are more open and willing to transition to more.
Bantering is a skill not everyone is fortunate enough to have. It is a skill that everyone needs and luckily it’s one you can learn.
This is why I created the ultimate guide on how to banter with women.
Knowing just this one skill can make a dramatic difference to how women feel about you.
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