Some men are afraid to touch women. There have been news stories of men getting arrested. A man does not need to have social anxiety. He needs to learn how to respect the boundaries of women and pick up on cues if she wants to be touched by a guy.
One of the biggest fears some guys have is getting in trouble for approaching a woman. And while that ALMOST never happens…
I came across a story the other day that I want to share with you. (If you want to read the full article for yourself, you can click here.)
A 19-year-old man in the UK was convicted of sexual assault after approaching and touching a 17-year-old schoolgirl.
But it turns out all he did was touch her on the arm when approaching her.
So why was he arrested and prosecuted?
Apparently the girl felt traumatized by the experience, and reported it to the police.
And the main thing that creeped her out was that the guy didn’t say anything to her at all. He just kinda jumped out in front of her and touched her, without a word. (It was also the second time he approached her.)
So from her point of view, it felt like he was a creep who just wanted to touch her. However, from his point of view, he was just trying to make a new friend.
You see, the guy was socially anxious and didn’t have many friends. So he googled ‘how to make friends’ in the hope of learning how to meet new people.
When he saw this girl and approached her, his brain froze up in the moment and he didn’t know what to say.
I can sympathize with that, because I’ve had a number of clients who also freeze up around women.
Honestly, I feel sorry for this poor guy as he certainly doesn’t seem like a predator who deserves to go to jail. And sticking him in prison certainly isn’t going to help his problems.
If anyone deserves blame here it’s the parents and teachers who let things get this bad. No kid should be forced to search Google for how to make friends.
I only wish he had come across my site and maybe things would have turned out differently. Anyway, I’m not sharing this with you to scare you.
The truth is, this type of outcome is VERY uncommon. And for the most part, the worst thing that happens when you approach a woman is she may ignore you.
But when you know how to approach the right way, that doesn’t happen either.
Instead, women open up and respond enthusiastically to you. Why?
Because it’s so rare that a man approaches us in the way that we secretly desire.
And when it happens, it’s virtually impossible for us to resist wanting to know more about him.
The last female friend you’ll ever need,