I’m going to show you 6 amazing fingering techniques that make women scream in pleasure. If you use these fingering techniques on a woman, it will blow her mind, take her to places she hasn’t been before, and compel her to keep coming back for more.
Fingering can feel amazing to a woman if done correctly. You can take her to heaven and back if you know what you’re doing. And you can even make her orgasm with just your fingers.
Here are the 6 fingering techniques that make a woman scream in pleasure:
Technique #1: Around The World
This first technique is a great way to warm her up before inserting a finger into her vagina. And it’s super simple. All you have to do is move your fingers in a circular motion around the clitoris. That’s it.
This technique stimulates the clit through the clitoral hood, which can lead to intense pleasure and even full-on orgasms for some women. It’s a surefire way to get her juices flowing, so her vagina will be soaking wet when you slip your fingers in. And that’s what you want.
You don’t ever want to finger a woman if she’s dry down there. It doesn’t matter if you use your spit, lube or her vaginal fluids to get it wet, but make sure it’s smooth and slippery.
Technique #2: The Finger Bang
Once she’s wet, it’s time to get your fingers in. The finger bang is an age-old technique that almost all men intuitively know and use. Is it the best there is? No. But it can be a good starting point.
Here’s what you need to do. Start by forming a gun with your hand, with your index out and the rest of your fingers curled in. Then, gently insert your index into her vulva, moving it in and out, slowly at first, then gradually building speed if she’s reacting positively.
Imagine yourself shooting someone, except that someone is your partner’s vagina. Ideally, you’ll want to aim for the upper wall of her vagina where her G-spot is located. It’s located about 1-2 inches inside the vaginal wall on the upper side. And feels like a spongy bump.
This spot is connected to a vast network of pleasure inducing nerves, making it a very sensitive area.
Technique #3: The Come Here Motion
This is my favorite one. Because it’s so simple yet so powerful. The “come here” technique involves curling your fingers towards the front vaginal wall and making a “come here” motion with your fingers.
Start slow and gentle. Let her warm up to it. And then build up pressure and speed. This technique stimulates her G-spot and can lead to intense orgasmic pleasure.
In fact, in some cases, you might even get her to squirt with this simple technique. AND you can actually use this technique with your tongue as well. Moving on…
Technique #4: The Double Entry
This is a more advanced technique. And you might not have heard of it. But it’s still fairly simple.
To perform the double entry, you’ll want to bring your thumb and ring finger together so that your index and middle finger are pointed out together and your pinky is all by itself.
Then, you’ll want to insert your index and middle finger into her vulva while simultaneously inserting your pinky into the ass. Just make sure to use plenty of lubrication on both holes.
Technique #5: Thumbs Up
To do this, you’ll want to have your girl with her back to you, maybe in doggy style or have her up against a wall. Then, you’ll want to insert your thumb into her vagina from behind and gently press it up against her G-spot. Meanwhile, you can kiss her back, neck, or cheek, and caress her body with your other hand.
This technique is amazing, not only because it stimulates the G-spot well, but it’ll also place your hand in a way that you should be able to fondle and rub her clit with your other fingers.
Yes, it’s a little more complicated than the other ones on the list. But when you get it right, it will give her incredible sensations of pleasure. And dramatically boost her chances of reaching climax.
Technique #6: The Spider-Man
To do the Spiderman technique, you’ll want to bring your middle and ring fingers in toward the palm of your hand, just like Spiderman does when shooting his web. However, there is a twist.
It is that you want to do this after inserting those two fingers into her vagina. This should place them directly against her G-spot. Then, you can either emulate the “come here” technique just using your fingers or move your entire hand back and forth.
Don’t be too rough. And adjust your speed and pressure level based on how she reacts. And this goes for all the techniques on this list.
Finding what your girl likes and responds to can take time. The technique, speed, and rhythm are all things that you need to play around with. And with trial and error, you will get a sense of what works for her.
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