Soft, slow, sensual lovemaking is wonderful. And it has its place in the bedroom. But sometimes, women just want it to be rough, wild, and intense. In fact, studies even show that the vast majority of women actually love rough sex. Because it’s connected to feeling overwhelmingly wanted by the man you want. Which is totally arousing.
And today, I will show you 10 of the best rough sex moves that women secretly crave in the bedroom — but might not tell you outright. With these amazing moves in your arsenal, you will be ready to rock any woman’s world in bed and keep her coming back for more.
Here are the 10 rough sex moves that women secretly crave in bed:
Move #1: Undress Her
Don’t wait for her to undo her bra herself, lift her shirt or pull down her jeans. Take control. You’re the one in charge. You’re the one who should be tearing off her clothes, like you can’t wait another second to ravage her body. That kind of passion and intensity will set the tone for what’s to come. And we love it.
Move #2: Throw Her Onto The Bed
Don’t place her down tenderly, like she’s a piece of glass you’re worried about shattering. Gently shove her onto the blankets and then climb on top of her to do what you want to do. Once again, it shows her that you can’t wait to enjoy her body. That you find her irresistible.
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Move #3: Hold Her Down
Women (especially feminine women) love feeling contained during sex since it allows her to feel secure, and she can freely express her sexuality with you. The easiest way to do this is to take her wrists, and hold them together over her head while you’re on top of her.
You can do this while making out, or during penetration. You can also hug her tight, and keep her “secured” that way. The important thing is that she feels restrained, and in a way, under your control. And that feeling of surrendering control is a big turn on for a lot of women.
Move #4: Kiss Her With Passion
This is simple. Kiss her like you mean it. Thrust your tongue inside of her mouth and moan like you’ve just tasted the best thing in your life. And don’t just focus on her lips. Push her head to the side so you can suck and nibble on her neck.
Women go crazy for that. The neck is a super sensitive area. In fact, if she’s okay with it, you can even bite and leave marks.
Move #5: Pull Her Hair
This works best if you’re doing it Doggy style, but you can make it work from pretty much any position. And trust me, she’ll absolutely love it. When you pull your woman’s hair, especially the area at the back near the neck it sends shivers down their spine.
So when having sex, it adds to the sensation and pleasure. Just remember to grab her hair close to the scalp. Don’t yank the ends, because that’s just painful.
Move #6: Grab Her Waist
This is simple. Grab her waist while you’re thrusting and hold her as tightly as you can. If you leave bruises, that’s okay — as long as she says it’s okay.
Her shirt will cover up the spot, and she can continue to act innocent around her family and friends.
Move #7: Choke Her Lightly
When choking her, you do not want to squeeze her windpipe. And you don’t want to grab her carotid arteries on the side of her neck too hard to where she passes out.
You want to choke her just right… with just enough pressure that she feels totally under your control in bed without getting hurt.
So start a little bit lighter than you might think, and focus on lightly pressing against her carotid arteries aka the sides of her neck. If she wants you to choke her harder, she’ll tell you.
Another way to do this is to grab her on the back of the neck. Since that’s muscle, you can be a little rougher, and she’ll love it since it’ll still feel like you’re in control.
Move #8: Spank Her
Spanking a girl is the easiest way to get into rough play, since you’re not going to hurt her by slapping her on the butt. And honestly, it’s pretty rare to find a woman who doesn’t like it after she’s tried it.
Start firmly, and with an open palm. To judge whether she likes it, you can ask, “Is that hard enough for you?” or “Want it harder?” That allows you to stay in control and keep her feeling good without causing any serious pain.
Move #9: Be Vocal and Talk Dirty
I’ve mentioned this… If you want your girl to get going in excitement and ecstasy, then you must be vocal and talk dirty.
It doesn’t matter if your girl isn’t a dirty talker, simply telling her how hot or beautiful she looks will get her craving for more of you. Similarly, saying out loud what you want to do to her or how much she turns you on can drive a woman wild.
Dirty talking is a powerful tool to have in the bedroom. And it can spice up any sexual interaction. Whether it’s a quickie before work or a more intense, long-lasting session. Moving on…
Move #10: Thrust Hard and Fast
Thrusting very hard and fast and mixing it with the points I mentioned previously will send her off the edge. But you wanna save this for last. You gotta warm her up first.
Consider this an endgame. And deploy it when you know she’s turned on to the brim. Where she’s begging for it. This is when you let out your animalistic side. And give her all you got with nothing held back.
And that concludes our list of 10 rough sex moves that women secretly crave in bed.
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