How do you go for the kiss the right way? I’ll share a simple and sexy trick to kiss a woman for the first time and turn her on like crazy.
In fact, I’ll even give you one magical line you can say to a woman that gets her aching to kiss you then and there. But before that all that… I’ll first reveal the 3 mistakes you must avoid when going for the kiss.
I’ve been coaching guys for 21 years now, and I’ve found that almost all men make one of these 3 kissing mistakes at some point. And chances are you’re making them too.
So I’m gonna talk about these mistakes first and then show you the simple way to initiate that first kiss… and leave her begging for more. If that sounds good, pay attention and keep reading.
Thing You Should Know
So. Here’s the first thing you need to know about kissing a woman. How you go about making the move on her tells her a lot about you… Probably much more than anything you could say to her. For example…
- Are you that confident masculine leader type of guy who goes for what he wants?
- Or are you shy and timid and weak minded?
- Are you experienced with women?
- Or are you scared of women?
- How much social intelligence do you have?
- Can you read basic social cues?
These are just some of the things that women can tell from the way you approach kissing her. That’s why it’s so important to get this right. And like I said I’m gonna give you a simple tactic to do it right. But first I wanna show you how you can get it wrong.
I wanna talk about the 3 most common mistakes guys make with kissing. Starting with…
Mistake 1: Getting Upset By An Initial Rejection
See, oftentimes a woman might be feeling attracted to you… She might be enjoying her time with you… But she won’t feel like it’s the right time to kiss you.
And when this happens she might turn her cheek… Or push you away when you go for the kiss.
Now what happens is that most guys get upset like little boys at this point. They’re pouting and sulking all night long. Maybe they start feeling like they’ve messed it all up. They’re visibly unhappy. And they never go for the kiss again.
This is a disappointment for a woman. Because it shows her that you can’t handle the slightest bit of rejection. It shows her that the moment something doesn’t go your way… you’re upset, you’re frustrated and you just give up.
Here’s what you need to understand. If you sense a connection with a woman… If you know there’s a good flirty vibe between the two of you… You can’t let a small rejection like this stop you from trying to kiss her again later.
Just brush it off. Act like it’s no big deal. She’s just not ready for the kiss right at this moment. But it doesn’t mean she won’t be at a later time. By all means it’s okay to try again later.
In fact, just by letting that rejection roll off like it’s no big deal… And trying again later… You’re showing her that you’re a man who goes for what he wants.
A man who prioritises his own wants and desires in life. And isn’t derailed when things don’t go his way. All of that is VERY sexy to a woman. And makes her respect you a lot more.
Mistake #2: Asking Her For Permission
Asking if it’s alright to kiss her… Or asking if she wants to kiss you right now… Is almost always a bad idea.
When we think of our first kiss with a guy… When we think of a great first kiss… We don’t picture him asking for our permission. It just kills all of the sexual tension.
I know most guys do this to be polite and respectful to a woman. You don’t want to make her uncomfortable in any way. And that’s perfectly reasonable.
But you’ve to understand that when a woman is into you.. When you know that there’s a connection and she’s enjoying your company… There’s nothing wrong with going for a kiss. You don’t need to verbally ask for her permission to go for it.
I know consent is huge right now, but I’ve interviewed nearly 7000 women and asked them if they like when guys ask first and 98% of them said NO. All you have to do is gradually build up to it.
Meaning… You get yourself closer to her. You start touching her more and look into her eyes for just a little longer. Then, you lower your voice and create a more relaxed seductive vibe.
And when you’ve slowed things down and you sense that sexual tension in the air… You make your move without guilt, without shame, without hesitation. This is how we picture that a kiss will happen. This is how women want it to happen.
If you simply talk to her then ask her if you can kiss her…It’s a complete mood kill. And even if you get the kiss from her… she’ll feel like something was just missing. She didn’t feel that “spark” that she wanted to feel.
This actually happens anytime you force women to make decisions. Anytime you put her into the position of the leader. As a man, you’ve to set the tone in the courtship process. You’ve to take charge and lead things forward.
Yes, a woman is more than capable of taking charge and making things happen. But that doesn’t mean she wants to.
In the context of romance and sexual relationships, we want the man to take the lead and make things happen. Only then we feel that spark of chemistry and that primal desire for him.
Mistake #3: Missing The Key Moment
Another common blunder guys do in the context of kissing is just missing that key moment. That moment when you can feel things have slowed down… When you can feel the sexual charge between the two of you or when you’re close to her. You’re touching her.
And you’re probably desperate to kiss her at this point. But instead of making your move, you overthink it. You want more signs of interest from her. You want her to make it easier for you to kiss her or you don’t want to risk losing this good thing you have with her.
So what do you do? You just talk past that window of opportunity you had. You keep talking and talking and no matter how many openings you get to kiss her… Feeling nervous and avoid taking a chance.
Problem is… The more of these opportunities you miss, the more a woman starts to lose interest in you. And you won’t get endless chances with her.
You’ll probably get one, two… maybe three… and that’s it. Then a woman is either gonna assume that you’re probably not that into her… Or more commonly, she’ll think that you’re into her but you’re too scared to make a move. And that’s a major turn off for us.
This is when you hear those things from a woman like…
- “Hey, I think we’re better off as friends…”
- “You’re a really nice guy, but I just didn’t feel the chemistry…”
And you know it’s all over. Now this obviously brings us to the big question… How do you go for it when you know you need to go for it?
When you’ve slowed things down, there’s a smooth seductive vibe, you’ve been touching and flirting with her all night… How do you get yourself to make the big move?
Here’s one of the simplest and hottest ways to do it.
Step 1: Do The Triangle Gaze. So let’s say you’re at that point where you’re clicking and vibing with each other… You’ve been flirting and touching her for a while now… And you know that there’s a connection here…
Here’s what you do next. As she’s talking to you… You look at her lips for a second… Then her left eye… Then her right eye… And you repeat this once or twice… With a little smirk on your face.
This is what’s called the Triangle Gaze. And it’s one of the best ways to reveal your interest in a woman so you don’t catch her by complete surprise…
But more importantly to get her anticipating and thinking about that moment… without saying a word. You’re giving her the sign that it could be coming soon. And that anticipation gives her butterflies.
Step 2: Announce Your Desire. Earlier, I told you that asking a woman if you want to kiss her is a mistake. It’s not sexy at all. And it kills the vibe.
But what is sexy is announcing your desire. Telling her exactly what you want without shame. And here’s how you do it. After the Triangle Gaze… Tell her something like this: “I would totally kiss you right now…”
And just pause for a second. If she says anything but “no” or “let’s not do that right now…”, It’s your green light to go for it. It means she’s turned on and more than ready for a kiss. And that’s what makes this line so good.
Announcing your desire like that is VERY SEXY by itself. But the side benefit is that you test if she’s ready to kiss you at that moment, without having to ask her. If she says no she’s not ready, you’ve lost nothing.
You didn’t say you were gonna kiss her right now. You just said you can’t wait to kiss her. That could very well be at a later time. And you can just continue the conversation as it was.
But trust me, nine times out of ten, once there’s a connection… Once you’ve done the Triangle gaze and you follow up with this line… She’s gonna be begging for a kiss. And that’s where the next part comes in.
Step 3: Pull The Trigger. You say the line… You pause… And if she says anything but no… Even if she just goes silent… You hold her by her chin, pull her closer to you and kiss her.
Don’t overthink it. Pull the trigger. And she’s gonna LOVE it. I promise you.
This 3 step approach that I’ve just laid out is as simple and as sexy as it gets. Doing THIS right is gonna imprint you as a hot guy in her brain. And she’s gonna replay this moment in her head for days to come.
So try it out the next time talking to a woman or you’re on a date… and you sense a connection with her.
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