Most women enjoy and look forward to oral action in the bedroom. But only a handful of guys are good at giving women the oral bliss we so desperately crave.
I want to discuss the 6 biggest mistakes men make when going downtown. And I want you to pay close attention so that next time you get intimate with a lady…
You avoid these awful mistakes when you get between her thighs… And give her the mind-melting, toe-curling pleasure she years for.
Here are the 6 common mistakes men make when going down on women:
Mistake 1: Jumping Straight In
As a guy, it's easy for your magic stick to get hard and ready in seconds. But women require warming up to get in the mood for love.
This doesn't mean she isn't attracted to you or you don’t get her going. It just means she needs your help.
When you go straight to the vulva, she likely hasn't had time to get turned on. And your flicking movements will be more annoying or even hurtful… than sexy.
To be her sexual knight in shining armor, start with a sensual make-out session. Keep your hands moving, grabbing her face and neck or sliding across her back and chest.
Kiss her all over. Caress her smooth skin. Run your fingers down her chest toward her lady parts, but don't touch them yet!
Be a tease and show her your romantic side before you jump in. That teasing, the anticipation it creates and the delay in gratification is what turns women on more than anything.
Mistake 2: Getting Too Weird or Intense
In their quest to be an extraordinary lover, guys often forget that oral sex doesn’t need to be complicated. In fact, it can be very simple.
Cut out all the thrashing tongue action and random finger insertion, and try treating a woman's vulva like the lips on her face.
Kissing her lips down there can be a passionate, teasing, no-stress way to get her worked up. You won't risk hurting her with too much pressure.
And the simple technique you're using will allow her to visualize your actions and concentrate on every sexy movement.
Since the average woman takes about 20 minutes to reach orgasm from oral sex, this is a solid first move for your performance.
Mistake 3: Using Your Tongue Like a Penis
It feels good when a guy can lick the inside of a woman's vagina, but your tongue has unique skills that are better served in more creative ways.
Don't treat it like a penis. Let your fingers be the tools that take on penetration duties and leave the tongue free to explore.
Instead of trying to shove your tongue inside her, focus on charming her clitoris.
Experiment with a few different patterns—lapping up her clit, going side to side like a windshield wiper, or teasing her with circles—to find what she likes best.
Once she's getting pleasure from this action, then you can insert a finger or two for added sensation. Just don't rush it!
Mistake 4: Rubbing or Thrusting Too Hard
Speaking of the clitoris… Yes, it’s the ultimate hot spot for nerve endings, but it's also easy to overstimulate the area, causing more pain than pleasure.
To make sure you aren't crushing her clitoris, start by kissing it (not sucking)… or using lapping motions with your tongue.
As she gets used to these movements, her sensitive areas can withstand stronger pressure, but never press too hard, bite her or suck too much… unless she asks for it.
Same goes with fingers. Even if she likes it fast or rough when it comes to sex, use foreplay action as a way to introduce sensuality into your sexual repertoire.
If you're inserting fingers as reinforcement, use slow rhythmic movements that are more of a ‘come here' motion than an in-and-out.
Why? Because bruising her pubic bone with your fast fingers is never a good thing.
Mistake 5: Stopping Too Soon
Listen, it takes longer for a woman to get fully aroused and for her to come, so don't get discouraged if she doesn't orgasm quickly, and don't stop if she doesn't ask you to.
Especially if you're planning on being with this same partner forever, you need to learn her normal cycle to ‘O' town and how to best please her.
Use these 20 or so minutes to try new things—asking how she likes them along the way—to find the right spots and the right movements to pleasure her body.
Also, aside from stopping too soon, don't get upset if she doesn't climax every time. Because the clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings meant only for pleasure, sex feels great the entire time, not just at the end.
Mistake 6: Changing It Up Before Orgasm
This one should be a no-brainer, yet many guys make this mistake. If she says she's about to come or looks like she's loving what you're doing, don't change it!
Don't get creative with a new position, don't press harder, don't go faster… Whatever you're thinking about doing to potentially speed up or intensify her orgasm, don't.
This sudden change of pace could take you both back to square one, as movements and positions feel different for every woman and it takes time for her to feel intense, orgasm-inducing pleasure from any motion.
If she's enjoying what you're doing, stay as consistent as possible and she'll ride that wave eagerly.
That brings us to the end of our list today. If you avoid these mistakes in the bedroom, you’re pretty much guaranteed to give your partner the intense, mind-bending oral pleasure she craves.
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