What are the signs she wants to be approached?
One of the biggest challenges I see in my line of work is men like you, being super confused by the signs women give them.
Does that smile mean she wants me to approach her, does it mean she’s just being polite or does it just mean nothing at all?
I get how we can make you want to pull your hair out at times.
Which is why I want to tell you 5 key signs to look for that pretty much guarantee she wants you to approach her.
Sign #1: The Look and Look Away Move Repeated –
If a woman looks your way and then slightly smiles and then looks away AND THEN repeats this a few times she totally wants you to approach her.
Add in a little hair toss and she’s totally signaling for you to get off your butt and approach her.
BUT pay close attention to her facial expression. If her face is cold and expressionless that is NOT an indicator to approach. Its an indicator that she's thinking “why is this guy looking at me”.
Sign #2: She Stands near you –
The place is empty but her and girlfriends happen to stand pretty darn close to and from time to time glance over to see if you are paying attention. This is a sure fire sign she’s open.
Sign #3: Her Movements Are Exaggerated –
I don’t believe ALL girls do this but I know for sure a lot of them do. I do for sure.
When we see a guy that we want to know more about we’ll start to work extra hard to make ourselves look very desirable to him.
We want you to see our value so that it will catch your attention and make you want to approach us.
IF you ever see a woman laughing extra hard or flailing her arms to show how much fun she and her girlfriends are having that’s a very good sign that she wants to catch your attention and have you approach her.
Sign #4: Talking To Herself
Ever been beside a girl and suddenly she starts talking to herself? Not like crazy talking to herself and thinking she’s a ninja or something. But just muttering little things to herself like “Ugh, this bus always takes forever” or “what a day”.
It usually feels as if you are supposed to say something back to her and that’s the point, you are. When a woman does this it’s a pretty good sign that she’s open to engaging in conversation and you should approach.
Sign #5: Making Some Sort of Eye Contact –
This is a tough one to see but if you look very carefully you will be able to tell whether her eyes are telling you to stay the hell away or hurry up and approach her.
The reason looking for eye contact is tough is because there are different types of girls that are able to use their eyes in different ways.
The shy girl will catch your eye and then immediately look away and then look back. While the confident girl may hold eye contact and add in a little smirk to show she’s landed on her mark.
Both are huge signs she’s interested and wants you to approach ASAP. Start to be on the look out for any of these 5 Key Signs and I promise, you will no longer miss out on an open window with a woman again.
One little bitter sweet note. We women are fickle little creatures and just because we want you to approach us does not mean you’ve got us.
After the approach comes the conversation. After the conversation comes the connection. After the connection comes the flirting. And so on and so on.
There are several steps in this dance and I want to help you navigate your way through them with ease.
Which is why I created The Chicktionary – Your Action Guide To The Hidden Meaning Behind Everything Women Say & Do.
I get that the things we women say and do can be VERY confusing and down right annoying.
If you never want to be stumped by the things a woman says or does again check it out now.
The Chick-Tionary is a complete manual that beams a powerful light onto the most puzzling, perplexing & BAFFLING female behaviors… turning them all into confident clarity for you, and illuminating the simple steps to making her YOURS (for one night or for years to come).
