Ugh!!! Here is why pick up artists give bad advice to men. Just when I think I have taken men two steps forward, I get emails like the one below.
Emails from guys telling me they have stumbled upon Pick Up Artist materials or advice from a “reputable resource” that their friends have turned them onto, ultimately blowing up in their face.
Check out the email below, from a guy who stumbled upon an old Tom Leykis segment (ugh!) and was given the typical advice of “Just treat girls like crap.”
Also check out how the “tactic” blew up in his face.
Email:
My response:
So guys, please DO NOT listen to other men who tell you, women are attracted to men who treat them like crap because WOMEN ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO MEN WHO TREAT THEM LIKE CRAP. The women who are drawn to these types of men are highly insecure and come with TONS of baggage.
If you want top quality, attractive women to want you and crave you, then treat them like the wonderful women they are. BUT be sure to remain the strong, confident, leading man you can be. That's what women are attracted to 😉
I get that systems are essential for learning new skills BUT most men do not use “The Game” as a learning tool. They see it as the bible. The ultimate way of being. Therefore, a lot of men get lost in the routines, lines, and strategies that they actually forget how to be the one thing that women are really attracted to. A real live, human MAN.
Plus they get so caught in this new found power that they screw over women by messing with their heads and feeding off their insecurities. No good! And not helpful.
I won't go on blasting the PUA community because I believe there is good intention there. I also know there are some great teachings within the bad materials. But I will say one thing: The more you game now, the more you are screwing yourself with women on the back-end.
Check out this video of me Speaking at a recent event about this topic. I will explain how using “Pick Up Artist” materials will bite you in the ass later on down the road.
WARNING: the video is very shaky but the information is essential for you to hear.
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