If you're looking for a girl to take to turn into your girlfriend or even get married to but you can't seem to find someone even after your best efforts, you need to read this article with an open mind. Because I am about to reveal the five most common reasons why a man remains single even after his best efforts to get a girl.
Some of these might upset you or maybe even offend you but I promise that if you watch it with an open mind, you will see that there are small changes you can make immediately to attract an amazing high-quality woman into your life.
Here are the five most likely reasons why you're still single.
Unrealistic Standards
It's good to know your worth and not settle for anything but what's best for you. But if you've set the bar too high, you're setting yourself up for disappointment. If you're searching for that perfect partner and you can't seem to find her, there's a good chance that she probably doesn't exist. There's a chance that your expectation of what the ideal woman for you should be like is unrealistic.
Because the truth is no one will match your description of the ideal partner. No one will have all the physical attributes you want. Plus all the same passions, interests, hobbies, and values. This means if you find yourself being too picky about the women you talk to or ask out on a date, you need to be a little bit more flexible. You need to give more women a chance to actually connect with you.
So my suggestion is to make a list of your top three to five deal-breakers. Three to five things that you won't accept in a partner. That's a good number of deal breakers to have because if you have too many, then you'll filter out pretty much everyone that you ever meet, and it's going to be very hard for you to find someone to get in a relationship with or to partner up with.
You are Stuck in the Past
If you've been hurt in the past by women that you loved or if you've been hurt while pursuing some girl you had a crush on, then you're probably holding yourself back now from putting yourself out there again. Which makes total sense. It's consciously or unconsciously that you're trying to protect yourself from the pain that you felt in the past because you think that it might happen again.
But the truth is you can't know until you try. The past doesn't equal the future. While unfortunate things might have happened to you in your previous relationships or previous pursuits, it doesn't mean that it's guaranteed to happen again. It's only a trick that your overprotective brain plays on you to keep you safe, and that's why you feel as if it might happen again.
The only way to know for sure is to try again. Try to get the women. The woman that you want, and who knows, this time around, maybe you'll stumble upon the most amazing relationship of your life because you're smarter now. You're more educated and experienced, and maybe you'll find the partner you deserve to have.
And even if you get rejected a few times before, you find her, does it even matter. You've handled bad experiences in the past, and you're still here looking for advice to improve your dating life, and that should tell you that you have the mental strength to get over some past rejection.
Listening to Your Inner Critic
Pretty much all of us have an inner critic that tells us we are not worthy. That tells us that there's something wrong with us. The problem is some people listen to it a lot more than they should. And if you find yourself being super nervous and shy around women you like, you're probably one of them. Your inner critic might be telling you that something is inherently wrong with you. That your face or your height, or your weight, social skills, intelligence, job title, and so on and so forth.
And it might be telling you that women you interact with will notice your flaws and judge you for them. That fear of judgment or having your flaws exposed keeps you from going after the women you like. Therefore, opening up to them. But here's what your inner critic doesn't know.
It doesn't know that those perceived flaws don't really matter at all or only matter to the extent that most people are willing to overlook. It exaggerates the importance of those perceived flaws and makes you feel like you're unworthy of love and attention because of them.
But in reality, those flaws hardly matter. They can help you connect with women faster. Because, you see, Hardly any girl wants or likes a man who appears to be perfect because that is very intimidating, and quite honestly, it can be a big turn off. We all want someone who has this share of imperfection. After all, that is what makes us human, right?
Seeking Validation, Not a Partner
This is especially common among younger guys, and you really need to ask yourself this question. Are you seeking validation? Or are you looking for a partner? Let me explain. So are you looking for a girl only to prove yourself to yourself that you're worthy of love and attention? Or are you genuinely looking for a girl to be in a relationship with? Be a partner with?
If you're seeking validation, then it's gonna be super hard for you to find a girl and even harder to keep a girl interested. Because when you're seeking validation, you automatically appear needy, no matter how much you try and hide it, and no girl wants to be with a needy guy and only looks for approval. It shows a clear lack of confidence and self-esteem, and it shows that you don't really believe in yourself
If you are, in fact, chasing women for validation which a lot of guys do, you need to shift your mindset immediately. You need to start believing that you're awesome and worthy of all the love, attention, and success you want. As basic and boring as it might sound, that's the choice you have to make every day of your life if you wish to get the women you like. And not just women but pretty much everything that you want in life, you need to believe in yourself, and that's like non-negotiable.
Unable to Spark Chemistry
So there can't be a sexual relationship between a man and a woman if there's no sexual chemistry. And unfortunately, most men don't know how to create that sexual chemistry. That irresistible feeling makes a girl want to chase you. And as a result, one of two things happen either they get rejected by the girl when they try to make a move, or they're sentenced to the dreaded friend zone because they're totally asexual. Both results are obviously terrible and often break a man's confidence and self-esteem.
The worst part is that these guys never learn how to spark sexual chemistry; they never seem to get the girl they want. They never seem to get beautiful high-quality women interested in them and are forced to either stay single or settle for somebody that they're not really attracted to.
Now lucky for you, it doesn't have to be that way, because I want to show you something. Something that could change your life forever, and it's called the F Formula. I'm sure you've heard me talk about it before. It is the fastest and most effective way to spark sexual chemistry with any girl you like.
The F Formula only has three simple steps to follow, and using it; you can create instant attraction with any woman at will
Over 50.000 of my students have used this formula to attract women, gorgeous women and amazing women into their lives. And there's no reason why it can't do the same for you.
To check out the F Formula and see how it works, simply watch a video where I reveal what this formula is and how it can work for you. When you start using the formula, your life will never be the same again. You'll have women chasing you, fighting for your attention, and honestly desperate to be sexual with you. Moreover, you're gonna possess the power to get dates on-demand with almost any type of girl.
And if that sounds too good to be true, well, just give the F Formula a try, and you will see if it is not too good to be true. Because I promise you, you have never seen anything like this before.
Marni.