Can You Take A Hint? If not, you need to learn. Women use a ton of subtext to communicate to a guy wether they're into him or not. If you can learn the “secret” language of women, you can stop wasting your time trying to CONVINCE them to be attracted to you, and start utilizing the techniques that actually MAKE women attracted to you. Read on…
“I don’t have time to date, I’m too busy at work.”
“I’m taking some time to get back in touch with myself.”
“I have a rule that I don’t give my number out to strangers.”
Any of these sound familiar?
If you’re like 99% of men, the answer is yes. And you may have believed her. And tried to change her mind by answering her objection.
Something like:
“Well we can go out on the weekend when you don’t have to work.”
Or:
“But if you give me your number then we won’t be strangers anymore.”
Here’s the problem with that: You’re trying to logically debate her about a fake excuse she made up. Perhaps you’re thinking, Marni, maybe she really was telling the truth.” If that’s what you think, then you need to remember this:
When we’re attracted to a guy enough, we’ll make excuses to see him. When we’re not attracted to a guy enough, we’ll make excuses not to see him. So if it feels like you’re having to convince a woman to give you her number or meet up with you… And she’s giving you reasons as to why she can’t, it almost always means she’s just not into you. It’s crucial to really understand this point, because most men don’t.
I get emails all the time where guys tell me their story. That they met a woman and she seemed really attracted to him, but she had these reasons she couldn’t see him and what can he do to change her mind. But if you have to change her mind, it’s unlikely she was attracted in the first place.
In most of these cases guys are mistaking politeness for attraction.
This is especially the case in situations that require her to be polite… Such as if you’re talking to her at her place of work e.g. she’s a waitress, barista, retail assistant or something similar. It’s her job to talk to you and maybe even flirt a little. And if you ask her out, she’s not going to come right out and say, “Sorry, but I’m just not sexually attracted to you.”
We don’t want to hurt your feelings or risk a confrontation by saying something like that. So it’s easier for most women to make up an excuse to make it seem like it’s not you, just that outside circumstances that are to blame. But unless we’re already in a relationship (if you hear this excuse, it may be the truth) we’re always open to going out with a guy if we like him enough.
Here’s what this means for you:
Any time you hear these false excuses from now on, don’t argue with her about it or try to change her mind. Because not only is it not the real issue anyway… but you’ll get on her nerves by not taking the hint that she’s not interested. Instead, realize it for what it is. She’s communicating that she’s not attracted to you enough to go out with you, and that’s the real issue that you need to change.
That means don’t try and move things forward by asking her out again. Take a step back and focus on creating that sexual attraction that’s lacking. How do you do that? Hands down, the best way is knowing how to flirt with her in the way that she wants.
This is like the secret sauce that creates attraction out of thin air… Meaning it has nothing to do with your looks, money, status, possessions or any of that stuff. It’s about the sexual chemistry you can create with just your words and body language. Now, I show you a proven system for getting this right in my program The F Formula.
So if you want to start enjoying fun and attractive conversations with women everywhere you go…
And stop hearing those false excuses when you try to take it to the next level, you need to click here and go check it out right now.
The last female friend you’ll ever need,
~Marni