Approach anxiety can kill your chances with a woman before you even start, and it’s something that a LOT of guys suffer from. If you sometimes don’t feel confident enough to even approach a woman, read THIS. It’s the ultimate cure for approach anxiety. Game changing!
If there were a way you could remove approach anxiety on the spot… Would you want to know what it is? For most guys, this is still the #1 issue that holds them back with women. So if you struggle with this, you’re not alone.
That’s why I want to share an exercise for eliminating approach anxiety… and you can use it the very next time you go out.
Before you judge this, make a commitment to actually try it out. Use it when you want to approach some women, and I think you’ll love how effective it is.
Here’s how it works:
You’re going to approach women with the intention of getting rejected.
That’s your goal — to get rejected.
Now, this works best in bar and club scenarios, but you can try it out in other situations.
And if you happen to have a wingman (or woman) to help make a game out of it, even better. Once you remove the pressure of needing to get a positive reaction from a woman…
Then it makes approaching her A LOT easier. And even though it sounds super easy to get rejected… When you try this out, it’s more difficult than you’d think.
I’ve seen this time and time again with some of my students. They’ll walk up to a woman and purposefully try to get rejected…
But actually create a lot of attraction instead.
Why does this happen? Well, a couple of reasons. The first is that you don’t give off that vibe of being nervous and anxious. Since you’re only trying to get rejected anyway, you’ll naturally appear more relaxed and confident.
The second reason is that you’re more likely to be having fun and will say or do something ballsy. This is a big one.
Normally guys are playing it too safe and afraid to take risks. And this just bores women and kills any feelings of attraction.
But when they’re trying to get rejected… They do and say things that are more provocative. This actually feels more authentic to women, and it separates you from all the other guys doing the same thing.
Now, I should point out one thing there.
I’m NOT advocating anything that’s creepy or offensive. So you’re not making crude sexual comments, threatening her, or anything else that is obviously a dick move. It can be anything else you want… but remember the goal is to get rejected, not slapped.
What you’ll likely find by doing this is you don’t get rejected nearly as much as you’d expect. You’ll probably even come away with a few numbers (or more)… and a newfound sense of confidence.
So use this just as a tool to help get over your approach anxiety, and realize you can take a lot more risks with women than you probably think.
Once you’ve got that down, then you can simply approach women without that goal of trying to get rejected. And if you’d like a proven system on exactly how to approach women in any situation…
As well as tons of examples of what to say…
Then you need to check out The Approach Blueprint.
This is the manual that has helped kill off more approach anxiety than anything else I know of.
Go put it to use and you’ll soon see why it’s so powerful.
The last female friend you’ll ever need,