Texting Women And Getting Ghosted? Here's What To Do!
Here's something I hear all the time from men when they're texting women:
“Marni, I was texting this girl and it was going great… until she disappeared. What happened? What should I do?”.
(Something my team of Wing Girls hear often in our exclusive FB group called the team)
And the answer is so obvious it'll smack you in the face.
First, I want to take you on a little journey through the female perspective ‘cuz… hey, that's what I'm here for!
The female perspective when texting women
Alright, so I meet this guy and I’m interested in him.
I give him, my number and wait for him to text me.
Finally, he does.
It's a funny or interesting text and I’m excited to hear back from him.
So I respond.
It keeps going like that, back and forth… back and forth.
It's going well.
But then the logical thing happens.
I get on with my day.
If I’m the type of woman you want (or should want) then I’ve got a lot going on.
Career, family, etc.
Suddenly, it's becoming a chore to keep responding to this guy I thought was cute.
And now he's becoming needier and needier as I get more and more distracted.
So what do you think I do?
Chances are, I’m going to start ignoring the texts.
Or start being curter.
Now, HE starts losing interest.
And things fall apart.
Do you see where things went wrong?
If you didn't, then let me explain:
When you're texting a woman or messaging a woman on any platform…
You've got to GET TO THE POINT.
Get to the point when texting women
And by that I mean, always set out the intention to meet in person.
Make sense?
It's the number one reason men get ghosted.
They think that texting is where the attraction building happens.
But texting is where INTEREST BUILDING happens instead.
You're building interest so that you can set up a face-to-face.
Or you risk the woman (or even yourself) losing interest.
So what does this mean?
It means you gotta just ask for what you want? Which is my #1 tip of all time to you.
Always ask for what you want, when you want it.
It won’t be rude, or aggressive if you say it with confidence and boldness.
Instead, it will be seen as an assertive ask from a high-status man who knows what he wants.
Listen – if you need help in building interest and setting out intentions through texting…
Or even in person….
Then you should join my exclusive Facebook group called “The Team” run by a group of my amazing single-wing girls who give it to you straight and tell you exactly what to do and how to do it.
With all my help through my videos and advice, there’s still A LOT MORE to deal with when it comes to women.
And as you know, one little mistake can ruin something that was nearly ripe.
For example…
What if you’re supposed to hang out and she cancels?
Do you pretend you don’t care?
Or do you flake on her to even the score?
What if she seems attracted to you one day, then over you the next?
Do you turn up your charisma?
Or do you pull back and pretend you’re losing interest?
These are situations that come up all the time.
And unless you know how to deal with them effectively, meeting a bunch of girls will be pointless, and getting a number is pointless.
The truth is…
The most successful guys in this game have a team they can call on at a moment’s notice.
They have a circle of friends who are also good with women.
And they lean on that circle often.
It’s like playing a game of chess and having a group of professionals helping you choose your next move.
When you have that, your chances of success go up by 10 times!
To become a part of my exclusive team and get instant advice and direction from my team of wing girls, go to winggirlmethod.com/theteam2
Again this group is a one-of-a-kind community where my personal team of certified Wing Girls and myself answer all your burning questions about women.
Pretty awesome right?
To sign up and join my team, go to winggirlmethod.com/theteam2
Marni