"I had a mock date with Nicki that was extremely helpful.  Nicki, you told me that I needed to flirt more to create attraction.  You told me some great things I could do to flirt and Marni gave me some additional resources.  Nicki, after our mock date I told you about my first date the next day with "brunch girl", her real name is Lisa.  She is beautiful, smart, and tall (she's taller than me which I think is hot).

Let's just say my first and second (last night) dates with Lisa were a huge success.  I made sure to flirt with her on my first date and was also direct in telling her what I was thinking.  I did the same thing last night and was even more flirtatious and direct.  I made her blush on both my first and second dates, that was a dating first for me.  At one point last night we were getting a drink at this bar that was really busy.  We were sitting next to each other talking and I looked her directly in the eyes and said "I can't wait to kiss you tonight".  She pulled me into her and kissed me right then.  Being direct and flirting definitely made an impact on her!  We later left the bar and walked to the train.  As we were walking on the sidewalk, on a busy street in Chicago, I stopped and pulled her to me and kissed her.  We were making out for a long time on this busy sidewalk as people were walking by the whole time.  It was awesome!  You've made a huge impact on my life."