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I want to share something with you today that can make dating MUCH easier… as well as a lot more fun. Yet it’s something that I see many guys completely neglecting for some reason.
What I’m talking about is having a social circle that helps you meet and date women, as well as acting as a support network. As women, this is something we know instinctively.
When we’re single, we’ll have our friends introduce us to guys. We’ll also go out with our friends to social events specifically looking to meet men. We also turn to our social circle to discuss our dating lives, getting help and feedback.
By having this support network to meet and date guys, as well as talk about what’s on our mind and get advice, it helps a lot.
But a lot of men don’t use this to their advantage.
They instead prefer the lone wolf approach, where they do everything by themselves. It could be going out to bars and sitting by themselves in the corner, hoping they’ll meet the woman of their dreams…
Or creating accounts on Tinder and other dating apps, spending hours by themselves swiping right on every profile. And when they have questions or challenges about something in their dating life, they try to figure it out on their own.
Now, obviously I’d recommend you seek help from myself and the Wing Girl team to help level up your dating success.
However in addition to that, having a great social circle will benefit you in so many ways. You’ll get invited to more events and parties, where it’s easier to meet women than in bars and clubs. That’s because you’ll have mutual friends, and it’s normal that you’ll get introduced to women there.
You can then think of this as a ‘warm approach’, versus a standard cold approach where you start a conversation with a complete stranger.
With a warm approach, women will usually give you the benefit of the doubt right from the start. Because someone in our social circle has already vouched for you, we don’t have that same concern that you could be a total creep or weirdo like we otherwise might.
Plus, when you’ve got other people around you, it instantly makes you seem more popular and attractive…
Whereas the lone wolf seems like he has no friends, which does nothing to boost his attractiveness to us. You also won’t have nearly as much fun going out by yourself, than if you were surrounded with awesome people to talk to and joke around with.
My suggestion is to cultivate a social circle full of both men and women. That’s because you’ll get more benefits, and a different perspective, from having plenty of friends of both genders.
For example, women will tend to have more close girlfriends they can set you up with. Whereas a guy who is also single and good with women can be great for going out and meeting women together.
Now, one of the questions people have is how to find and develop their social circle.
While this could be the subject of an entire book, here are a few things you can do:
- Start inviting people from work out for drinks or food and build up friendships there
- Look to join social groups in your area, such as on meetup.com
- If you meet a woman and there’s no chemistry there or she has a boyfriend, you can still add her to your social circle
- Organize some cool activities in your local area and spread the word on social media
There are lots of ways you can go about this, it just takes a little initiative and effort. But the rewards will be well worth it. And while having a social circle will help you meet more women and improve your dating life…
If you want to optimize the success you get from that, then it’s still crucial you understand what women really want in a man and what turns us on.
This is the focus of my best-selling program, How To Become A Man Women Want.
It shows you how to present yourself to women and communicate in a way that creates strong attraction and sexual interest.
The last female friend you’ll ever need,