These days, even approaching a woman can feel like entering a minefield. If you go up and talk to her, will she think you’re a freak? Will she roll her eyes and groan inwardly? Read on and let me blow that entire mindset out of the water!
Do you ever see a woman you’d love to go and talk to, but think that she doesn’t want to be approached? Like maybe she’s doing something and it seems like it’d be rude to interrupt and talk to her. If so, you’re not alone and this is for you.
Recently one of my students confessed that he feels like he’s bothering women if he approaches them…
Especially in situations where they appear to be busy, for instance:
- Working out at the gym
- Reading a book
- Wearing earphones and listening to music
- In a group of women who are talking
And sure, the easy thing to do in these situations is tell yourself she doesn’t want to be approached and just let it go. But the truth is, you are NOT a mind reader. You have no way of knowing with any certainty that she doesn’t want to be approached.
All this is doing is looking for excuses not to take action and put yourself out there. (And I know this was the case with my student, because he then went on to give me reasons as to why he can’t meet women online, at speed dating events, or bars and clubs.)
Here’s what it boils down to:
Stop looking for excuses, and instead start seeing the opportunities.
Realize that you have a lot to offer as a man, and that by not presenting that to women, you’re doing everyone a disservice.
Let’s take the example of a woman who is reading a book. Sure, she might be wrapped up in the story in that moment.
But if you noticed that she dropped a hundred dollar bill, would you hesitate to let her know, just because she was reading? Do you think she’d get annoyed at you for pointing it out?
Of course not, right?
Well, how much more valuable are you — in terms of how you can impact her life — than a mere hundred bucks?
You should have that belief that every time you approach a woman, you’re presenting her with a once in a lifetime opportunity to get to know a great guy.
And by not even approaching her, you’re taking away her right to decide for herself what she wants.
Believe me, we’re all big girls and can take care of ourselves. If we don’t want to talk to a guy in that particular moment, we’re perfectly capable of telling him that.
Now, in a lot of these cases, we’re simply passing the time by listening to music or checking our phone. We’d LOVE to be doing something more interesting… such as flirting with a confident man who has the guts to come and approach us.
Trust me, if a woman is single, she’s much more interested in meeting a great guy than listening to her playlist for the fiftieth time.
So stop worrying about if you’re being rude or not. Because in many of these cases, your rudeness could be the best thing that ever happened to the both of you.
Of course, deciding to approach her is only half the battle.
You need to actually know what to do and say to capture our attention and spark some sexual interest.
But don’t worry, your Wing Girl has you covered. Because that’s exactly what you’ll learn — in extreme detail — inside my program, The Approach Blueprint.
Even guys who have suffered with crippling approach anxiety most of their life are seeing tremendous results by following this system.
The last female friend you’ll ever need,