How To Dirty Talk

I’m going to tell you how to use women's need to talk about people and relationships so that you can easily escalate your conversations with ALL women and even use it to start talking dirty. 

In other words, I’m going to tell you how to quickly turn your conversations from totally PG and friendly to playful and sexual. 

I recently had my friend Adam Lyons on my podcast and he reminded me of this simple love we women have for talking about people.  

Typically when we women start talking about other people that leads to talking about relationships which leads to talking about sex. 

You may think that going down the natural female path of discussing relationships and sex will lead you and the woman you want to becoming besties.

The reality is that when done correctly these discussions can actually attract women and get your conversation to a more playful and sexual place very quickly.  Next, we'll talk about how to accomplish this.

Before “dirty talk” you play the “talk about people card”.

When you turn your conversation outward towards the world around you, you can create really interesting conversations with women. 

For example if you are at a friends get together or dinner party and your sitting beside a really cute girl, you can suddenly turn to her and say something like “what do you think those people over there are talking about”? 

You could also ask, “do you think those people are together or just friends”? 

If she’s up to play with you, which most likely she will be because you’ll make it very engaging. From there you can steer the conversation towards discussing peoples relationships and then towards their sex lives.  

Using a 3rd party to discuss sexual things is not invasive or creepy. In fact, for most women it’s a fun way to express their sexual side without feeling judged or labelled. 

For example if you see two people beside each other you can talk about what each of them may be like in the bedroom after you’ve decided that they are there together.  

You could say, “He looks like he’d be the more dominant one in the bedroom” or “she looks like she’d be really kinky in the bedroom”. 

If the girl latches on and participates with that conversation you can then turn it back to the the of you. “Interesting you think she’d be kinky. I think she’d be more submissive. Where do you fall in this category? Are you more kink or submissive”.  

Make strong eye contact

When you do this make strong eye contact so that you deliver the flirtatious tone with confidence. (It's weird when a man looks away when he's flirting or being edgy. It makes us think that you're embarrassed or that you're not fully owning it.)

Once you are already talking about sex it’s really easy to transfer the conversation to first person sexual conversations.  

Next, you can just simply be curious in a non-perverted way. Then you can continue climbing up the ladder of sexual escalation.  If she continues participating, you can continue escalating. 

And the next escalation might be sharing your own likes and dislikes. “I love it when a girl takes charge and tells me exactly what she wants”.

At this next escalation be sure to speak in a…

Slower voice during dirty talk

A slower voice will subliminally communicate a change in the tone of the conversation. It will communicate that you have confidence around dirty talk because you're not trying to rush through it.

She may go into, “I love it when a guy pulls my hair.  OMG I can’t believe I just said that but I do”. 

Once you get a girl into this space and she’s agreed to let you in, it will just continue to grow. 

Couple all of this escalation, strong eye contact and slowing your voice with a… 

Slight touch

The touch should be natural and a little more frequent than when let's say you're talking about more neutral subject matter like your work or hobbies.

Do you see how a woman’s natural love for talking about people can lead to dirty talk that tells you exactly who she is in the bedroom?

This continuously gives her a visual of being sexual in association with you!

Guys who understand these tiny things about women are incredibly rare. This why the few who do get it also have more sexual options than they can handle.

Do you want more insights like these into a woman's mind? 

Here's what I suggest, if you’re interested in having the power to quickly create these kind of emotional connections with women that are sexual in nature.

Go take a look at my top-rated program, The F Formula. https://www.winggirlmethod.com/flirteffortlessly 

It’s a program that shows you how to flirt with women and tap deeper into our emotions. 

Good flirting bypasses the logical brain and goes straight to our emotional core. It triggers a gut reaction that fires up our emotions.

Unlike the typical conversations we have with most men, which fall flat. The F formula shows you a simple framework that’ll make flirting feel like second nature.

This includes some word-for-word examples to help you get the hang of it.

This is the fastest way I know of to create the gut-level attraction and sexual tension that we find irresistible.

To learn more on how to quickly and easily ignite feelings of emotional connection in any woman you speak to through flirting, simply go to my website https://www.winggirlmethod.com/

Marni