If you’re tired of swiping on apps like Tinder and Hinge… And you’re wondering… Where can I meet more women near me, in real life? You’re in the right place.
I’m gonna show you the perfect strategy to meet and connect with attractive women in person, no matter where you live. I’m calling this strategy the prime location hack.
And it comes from my good friend… who’s also one of the best dating coaches in the world right now… Blaine Anderson.
Blaine and I recently did a LIVE masterclass on how to approach women. And in it, Blaine shared this amazing strategy for meeting women that any guy can use. In fact, over 4,000 of Blaine’s students have applied this exact strategy to meet beautiful women, get dates and end up with hot girlfriends. There’s no reason why you can’t do the same.
All you have to do is understand how and why this strategy works, and then give it a try. So if that sounds good, let’s dive in.
What Is the Prime Location Hack?
So, the core idea behind the prime location hack is this… Not every location is “ideal” for meeting women.Some places are much easier than others. And no… I’m not talking about bars and nightclubs.
Just let me elaborate. As Blaine explained in our masterclass, if you want to answer the question, where should I go to meet more women… There are two factors you need to consider.
First is what she calls: Location Interest Specificity. Second is: Location Stigma. This is important so pay attention.
Location Interest Specificity
The first factor, interest specificity, refers to how particular a location is to an interest that you may share. In general, the higher the interest specificity, the better it is for meeting women. Why? Because much of the work you’d do to find commonalities with a woman is already done for you.
Let me share an example to illustrate. Let’s say you’re someone who’s really into wine. In this case, you’ll find it much easier to connect with women at a wine bar than just a regular bar.
You’ll find it even easier at a wine tasting event that you’re both at. And you’d have the most in common with a woman who’s let’s say at a mutual friend’s wine tasting event.
You’re both into wine. You’ve overlapping social circles. And you probably have some shared values. Point is, striking conversations and sparking a connection becomes more natural the more interest specific a location is. Because you can quickly bond over the commonality of that interest.
Location Stigma
The next factor to look at is: Location Stigma. This is something most guys don’t really think of. Location stigma refers to the potential cost a woman might face for having a romantic, sexually charged interaction with a guy.
So is this a place where others would judge her for meeting and flirting with a guy? For example, possibly at an event with friends and family. Or are there any other reasons why she wouldn’t wanna meet men there?
For example, she goes there every day, like to her workplace, and so things might get awkward or complicated. So to put this in another way. Location stigma is specific to the woman’s personal relationship with the environment.
So for example, a barista who works at your favourite coffee shop will feel differently about getting involved with you versus a cute girl from out of town who happens to be standing in line with you.
And here’s the most important thing about location stigma. The greater the stigma at a location, the more trust and connection is required to move things forward in a romantic direction.
For instance, many people meet their partners at work. However… It takes more effort and TIME to build a romantic connection at places like that.
Now compare that to say a bachelorette party. A woman would be far more open to flirting and moving things forward with you at a bachelorette party. Because the stigma is quite low. And I hope that drives this point home for you.
The Prime Quadrant: Where It’s Easiest to Meet Women
Now here’s the idea to lock into your head. The prime location to meet more women… The prime location where it’s the easiest to connect with women naturally… So it’s high interest specificity and low stigma environments.
For example, let’s say a woman is at a bachelorette party at a mezcal bar in Austin. And you’re like a mezcal expert. You’d have so much to talk to her about and she won’t be judged for having a fun, flirty interaction with a guy.
On the other hand… The places where it’s gonna be hard to meet women are in the top left quadrant of the graph. These are low interest, high stigma environments.
So for example, if she’s at a family reunion at a public park, it wouldn’t be the best idea to approach her and start flirting. And I’m sure you get it by now.
Examples of Prime Locations
Now here are some other examples of high interest, low stigma environments to meet women… aka your prime locations. So you have… specialty restaurants.
Let’s say you’re at an vegan Ethiopian restaurant and you see a cute girl, it would be easy to spark a conversation because you’d immediately have something to talk about. Same goes for unique events.
Like let’s say you’re at a concert of a little known, indie rock band. You could naturally spark connections with women at such a place.
Then there’s travel. And if it’s a remote location even better. Like if you’re both on a vacation in London, that’s good and it’s still a point of commonality.
But if you’re in a small town in the south of France or something, that’s gonna be even better. Because London is a hub for tourists.
But a small town in France, what are the chances? You’ll bond with each other very quickly.
You need to be more skilled at having fun, flirty, interesting conversations. Now a little hack that you can use in these interactions is to strategically advertise your interests.
So for example, wear clothes that highlight your interest. I’ve a friend who used to have a t-shirt that said “I love reading”. And he used to have girls come over to talk to him because that t-shirt sparked their intrigue.
Usually they’d come over and ask what he’s been reading lately or what’s his favourite book, and so on. Another thing you can do is carry an accessory that shows your interests or something important to you. Like if you’re walking around with a camera, your new puppy, a volleyball, or whatever, it will spark women’s curiosity if they have that in common with you.
But all in all, if you want the best possible place to meet more women right now… If you want to make it as easy as possible for you to talk to women and spark connections… You should prioritize going to locations with low stigma, high interest specificity. That is the ultimate hack for meeting women.
I can’t tell you what these places are for you. But I’m sure you can work it out for yourself by now. Now before I wrap this up, I know you could be wondering but what if you’re interested in a woman at a high stigma, high interest specificity location?
Like what if you’re interested in a cute barista at a coffee shop, or you have a new gym crush, or you’re attracted to a coworker? Well. Here’s the magic ingredient for that.
Trust. You need to build trust. How? Well. Trust is built with familiarity. And familiarity is built over time.
This means it’s best that you don’t ask her out the very first time you see her. You talk to her. You keep it fun, playful, maybe a tad little flirty but not too much.
You show confidence by having good posture, good tonality, holding eye contact. And you let time work in your favor. Don’t jump the gun and ask her out.
How long should you wait? Well. 3 to 4 interactions is a good rule for these situations. She needs to feel more comfortable with you. She needs to trust that things will be okay if she goes out with you, and you’ll be discreet about it. And she needs to trust that you’ll be cool even if things don’t work out.
This kind of trust won’t happen in one interaction. So you have to play the longer game. That said, now you know exactly where to meet women in real life and make it easy for yourself.
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