Fingering Techniques For Men Who Want To Please Their Women

Want to learn how to turn her on with touch? We're going to talk about fingering tips, which happens to be one of my favorite topics.

Honestly, fingers are favorite for so many women. Yet, many guys fly right by this easy way to turn her on and get her ready for you… especially if you need a little breather from straining your neck. ; )

Go Slow

The first thing that I can teach you, which is a great tip for fingerings is to go slow.

There are so many guys who really like to race to the finish line, but that is the last thing that any woman wants.

She wants to enjoy her sexual experience.

So take a step back, slow down, and start working your way up towards her vagina.

Before you start jumping right into it, you want to savor the experience of just being present with her. Look into her eyes. Let her relax.

This will calm her mind so that her body can loosen up and enjoy the sexual experience.

Teasing

I love to be teased and I don't really know a single woman who doesn't like to be teased.

You want to make sure that you give about three to five minutes and possibly even longer to properly tease a woman to get her excited and physically turned on.

Basically touch her everywhere except her vagina.

Squeeze her thighs, run your fingers up and down her body. Squeeze her butt. This will ignite her passion. Once she's turned one everything feels exciting and pleasurable.

She'll get excited by just the thought of you touching her which is exactly where you want her.

You will also get to know her body and what she likes and what turns her on beyond the obvious place.

How to turn her on with touch? Know thy clitoris!

I know that some guys have trouble finding the clitoris, and I'm not saying that to you.

I might be doing this for other guys, but just in case, here's a little bit of a refresher.

What you want to do is you want to rub your hand down the center of her belly, the belly button to the pelvic region. And then once you hit something, then you want to pull your hand back until you get to the first dry spot. And you'll feel a little bit of a button right there.

That is the clitoris.

So now that you have found it, you want to know that this is the area that you want to concentrate on.

Rub it really softly either with the tips of your fingers or even better with the palm of your hand.

You don't want to be too aggressive with the way that you touch this sensitive spot.

The squish

Learn how to turn her on with touch with this underused technique. Let's talk about “The Squish”. Try this for about 30 seconds. You want to do this squishing thing where you rub on the top of the pelvic bone and the clitoris at the same time. It's called the squish because you're kind of squishing the vagina. When you rub the pelvic bone, it actually stimulates the G-spot at the same time that you're rubbing on the clitoris.

The combination of these techniques is bound to drive her wild.

But what's most important besides any technique that you do. Or even while you're doing these things to her is you want to pay attention to how it's making her feel. You want to listen to her body… and you want to listen to her.

Every woman is different and likes different things.

If you're in a relationship reading this so that you can learn to better please your woman…

Then definitely check out my program Beyond Attraction.

It shows you how to keep your relationship fresh outside of the bedroom so that she feels connected to you in the bedroom.

Click here to check that program out. 

A big component of turning a woman in on is having her emotionally connected to you. That makes for the steamiest sex of all! 

Till next time,

Marni