Signs She Secretly Likes You Even If It Seems Like She Doesn't
It's especially hard to understand the signs she secretly likes you, Why is this so difficult?
Because we girls do some really subtle and weird things when we like a guy.
Most men have no clue that these are actually signs of attraction.
On top of that, some of these signs are so counter-intuitive that they might give the impression that we don't like the guy when in reality we do.
And the good news is this challenge of figuring out, does she like me? Does she not is about to go away from your life forever!
Okay, let's get into the signs she secretly likes you. The first sign is…
She's nervous
Yes. Most girls really get nervous when they like a guy. We become sure of what to do and what not to do.
Should I keep talking to this guy? Should I not? Does he even like me? Am I being impressive enough?
There are a lot of hidden anxieties running through our heads just like you. As a result, we'll fumble over our words, fidget a lot, run out of things to say, avoid eye contact, basically show all kinds of behaviors that signal nervousness.
The problem is most guys overlook all of this. They don't realize that girls can get nervous too.
Next sign she secretly likes you is…
She's constantly fixing her appearance.
This is behavior born out of self-consciousness just like we get nervous or anxious around a guy we like we also get very self-conscious.
And the number one thing we get self-conscious about is our appearance. We know that guys are attracted to woman's beauty. So we want to ensure that we look see I'm even thinking it right now.
I'm fixing my hair. So we want to ensure we look our best in front of a guy. We want to make sure he finds us attractive enough. We constantly worry about things like is our hair alright? Do we look fat in this dress? Does my makeup look okay?
If you're talking to a girl and you notice she's fixing her hair from time to time, fixing her dress, excusing herself to the ladies' room, and emerging looking better than she did before. Chances are she likes you. She's attracted to you. And she wants to ensure that you're attracted to her.
Number three…
She laughs at your jokes (especially the ones that aren't all that funny)
If you notice that a girl is smiling and giggling and laughing at all of the jokes you make, even the ones that you know are not that funny…
She is a hundred percent attracted to you and into you.
It's her innocent little way of letting you know, she likes you and thinks you're amazing. She wants you to know how much she appreciates you, and she's secretly hoping that something happens between the two of you.
She teases you… that's a sign she secretly likes you
This one throws a lot of men off and I get it. If a girl teases her challenges you by saying things like…
Are you trying to pick me up? Cause it's not going to happen. Or gosh, you're such a dork or something of that kind of nature…
You might think that she's not into it at all.
I would probably think the same thing, but the truth is she's actually interested. She may not be sold on you yet, but she's interested, engaged, and teasing you to see how you react.
Basically, she has seen some potential in you. She's thinking you might be a good guy to be with, but she's not fully sure yet and she wants to find out.
She wants to know if you've got confidence and strength of character. So she's teasing and challenging you a little, just to see how you are going to react.
If you get all nervous and insecure, that means she was wrong about you and you won't be a good fit for her.
But if you're cool about it, if you shrug it off or maybe even come back with some teasing on your own of your own, which is the best, that would mean her suspicions are true. And you are a high-quality guy.
She acts helpless
Women want their man to be a leader.
We get turned on seeing our man take charge of things.
So if a girl is asking you to help her with things like changing a tire or booking a cab, driving her home. Basically, she's acting like a damsel in distress and being vulnerable around you.
It means that she wants you to assume the position of the man in her life and she's definitely into you.
This is different from a woman who is using you to get things done.
This woman wants to see you be in charge and be that strong leader she can rely on so that she can be aroused even more. How about that for signs she secretly likes you!
She's quiet and attentive
This is another one that men often misinterpret.
You see a lot of us girls get really quiet and attentive when we're with the guy that we like.
We don't talk much. Instead, we'll simply just pay attention. Listen to him, observe his behavior and stay quiet.
The reason we do it is yet again, self-consciousness we don't want to say something stupid and make a fool out of ourselves. So we stand back and just let the guy do his thing.
#7 of the 7 signs she secretly likes you
She denies liking you
This one is super counterintuitive, but it's true for a lot of us women.
When we like a guy, not only do we not confess our feelings to him, but we also deny liking him when asked about it, we'll laugh it off.
We'll say something sarcastic or change the topic or something of that sort. Why do we do this? Well, because we're hesitant and full of doubt. We don't want to say this first.
What if the guy doesn't like us? Or he's not the right guy for us? What if he takes advantage of us and breaks our hearts?
There are a lot of concerns going on in our heads or even so consciously. So to protect ourselves from potential pain, we keep our feelings a secret.
This fear of making a mistake can also cause another big problem for us.
You see as annoying as it might sound to you, most women won't be ready to do something with you unless their fears and doubts are removed.
She might like you.
She might think you're a cool, attractive guy, but she still won't go on a date with you or do anything of a sexual nature because her fears and doubts, and concerns need to be removed first.
So how do you do that?
Simple.
You flirt with her in the way women want to be flirted with you, flirt with her and get her in that state of escalation.
That emotional state, where her desire for you, overpowers all of her fears and worries, and the state where she's deeply aroused and desperately wants you to make a move on her.
In my flat, in my flagship program, the F formula, you can learn how to get a woman in this state while talking to her.
The F formula breaks down step-by-step how to flirt with women and transport her into that state, which is practically begging you to escalate with her.
Once you start flirting with a girl like it's shown in the F formula, you'll erase all her fears around making a mistake with you. All she'll be thinking of is when you'll make a move on her.
Click here to check out the F Formula know. I made a short video telling you all about it!
Marni