Here's A Bulletproof Tinder Opening Message
Let's talk about tinder openers that work and one that works universally to other sites, as well.
There’s something interesting we've found with online dating and especially on some of the most popular sites like tinder.
Some opening messages work.
And some absolutely do not! I know you've definitely experienced this.
That’s why it’s essential that you test different opening messages; tinder openers, match, hinge, bumble, etc.
What’s more, some messages work on some platforms better than others.
Tinder openers that seem to get the best results are funny opening messages.
Whereas platforms like Hinge seem to do well with curiosity creating openers.
My fellow coaches and clients have probably sent over 100,000 opening messages to girls.
And one opening message always seems to do well on ALL platforms.
It’s a simple message really.
Ready for it?
“You look like you’d steal my favorite hoodie”
This opening message gets a response from women because it does a number of important things…
It builds intrigue, challenges her, assumes comfort, and makes her imagine having some kind of intimate relationship with you.
Women will often reply playfully, which is exactly what you want.
“I definitely would!” she might say. “And I’d never give it back!”
To which you could say:
“Well, I’d steal that cute little puppy you have in your pics. He’d never want to go back to you because my scratches are so much better than yours”
As you can see, you could really go on like this for some time.
Incorporate being playful into your tinder openers
Being playful with women — especially playfully fighting with them — is HUGE for attraction.
Most guys on the online dating platforms just do what I call “Platonic Vibing.”
They go into “interview mode.”
Don't kill a great tinder opener by going into interview mode
What do you do? Where are you from?
And that absolutely KILLS attraction.
But when you can be playful, flirty, funny, and build intrigue, then you’re well on your way to building ATTRACTION.
This is just one of a myriad of techniques we outline in my new course “COVID-Dating: How to Connect in an Isolated World”.
In summary, this technique will:
1.) Set you apart from other guys.
2.) Make you look like a confident man who has options and knows what he wants.
3.) Find women best suited for YOU.
4.) Get her to chase you!
All of that with just a sentence!
Now THAT is a powerful technique to add to your arsenal.
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Your Wing Girl,
— Marni