Attractive Things Guys Do Without Knowing That Drive Women Wild
Are you sexier than you think? Let's talk about the 10 most attractive things guys do without knowing. Some of these may surprise you!
Most guys actually have no clue how sexy these little things are to women.
And if you don’t, just start doing them and you’ll boost your sex appeal overnight!
Cooking is the first attractive thing guys do without knowing
Most guys are totally unaware of this, but girls LOVE watching a man cook.
When a guy is bustling around, chopping vegetables, mincing meat, and stirring things around in a pan; confident and focused.
It’s like porn for the female mind.
It’s near impossible not to be turned on by this. Then, if he also cleans the dishes, wow!
The very act of cooking regardless of how the food actually tastes makes a man look super sexy.
There is something sensual about cooking, even if it is simply making a sandwich or creating a drink.
It’s a massive turn-on for women. We just love it.
Rolling up their sleeves
This one’s huge!
When a man wears a long-sleeve T-shirt or button-up shirt and he decides to roll-up his sleeves to his elbows revealing his forearms.
You’re probably thinking Marni what the heck is wrong with you that you find this sexy. But I will tell you, it’s not just me.
Almost every girl loves this.
There’s something unbelievably sexy about rolling up those long-sleeves and showing your forearms.
Maybe it’s because it signals something dirty or tough or messy is about to happen.
It gives a guy that rugged, outdoorsy, masculine look that most girls swoon over!
And the best part is: any man can do this to look sexier.
You don’t necessarily need buffed-up forearms with veins popping out of them.
You simply need to roll up your long sleeves and reveal your forearms. That’s it.
That alone gets the job done for us girls.
Being kind to people
Acts of kindness are extremely endearing and sexy; no matter how small the act is.
It could be tipping a waiter more than usual, helping an elderly person cross the road, or even giving a doorman a lavish compliment.
When we see a guy do something kind for another person, it makes him insanely attractive to us.
It shows us that he is a high-quality guy who cares about other people.
Plus, It also subconsciously tells us how he might treat us in a relationship.
Being good with kids is an attractive thing guys do without knowing
Strange, huh?
From an evolutionary perspective, women are hard-wired to look for a partner who can take care of their offspring.
So it’s quite obvious that we find men who are good with kids very attractive.
Watching a man interact well with kids sends a subconscious signal to the female brain that he would be a great dad, which quickly makes him a desirable option for a long-term relationship.
Simple little things like seeing a guy play with a kid or teach something to the kid can make him extremely appealing to us women.
There’s even research on this subject which shows that women find guys who are good with kids much more attractive than others.
And it’s no surprise.
Speaking passionately
When a guy talks about his passions, he talks with an element of confidence and enthusiasm which is instantly captivating!
Passion makes you seem charismatic, ambitious, and exciting without even trying.
When girls sense how pumped you are about things you love, we get pulled towards you even if we’re not interested in the thing you’re talking about.
Like a guy could be talking about his work, a sport, a hobby, or even a movie he loves. As long as he is truly passionate about it and his body language, words and tonality reflect that we are bound to find it sexy.
Most guys make the mistake of talking about things they care very little about thinking they can impress us with their knowledge.
They even pretend to like the same things as we do in hopes of bonding with us.
But the problem is, real passion and enthusiasm can’t be faked. And women see right through the lie.
So don’t try to like something you don’t actually like just to impress us.
Instead, just show us your unique passions. That’s the real way to impress us.
The genuine smile is a hella attractive thing guys do without knowing
A warm, genuine smile is a smile that is accompanied by wrinkled, half-closed eyes, and a laugh or teeth you can’t hide.
Think of George Clooney in the movie Ocean's Eleven or Will Smith whenever he’s on a talk show…
That type of genuine smile is highly contagious and charismatic.
We love seeing men wear a genuine smile.
It makes him appear extremely endearing and attractive.
Plus, since it’s contagious and radiates joy, it makes our heart happy just seeing it.
Concentrating on a task
Okay, this one might sound a bit strange to you.
And frankly, I really don’t know why it’s so sexy. I just know that it is.
When we see a guy concentrating on a task or focusing on figuring something out, here’s something about that facial expression that quickly turns us on.
It’s just really sexy that’s all I can say about this. We could just look at that face all day.
Fixing stuff is surprisingly an attractive thing guys do without knowing
When a guy takes charge to fix something or put something together, it somehow drives women crazy.
It could be as simple as fixing the TV or putting together a small piece of furniture. All things I can totally do myself, but when a girl sees a guy doing it, she can’t help but think that it’s so sexy.
There’s something very masculine and attractive about being handy like that. It appeals to us women on a primal level.
Plus, in a way, it also shows us that you're a reliable leader – which is the role every woman wants you to assume in a relationship.
Wearing a tailored suit
Okay, do I even need to explain this?
Suits are perhaps the classiest of all male outfits.
It makes a man look sophisticated, confident, and of high- status.
In simple words, it makes him super sexy.
Suits command our respect and attention, unlike any other outfit.
It’s no surprise that you’ll see these male fictional role models like James Bond and Don Draper walk around in a suit most of the time.
The only caveat with suits is…
It should fit you properly or else it’s not that attractive.
Ruffling through their hair
When a guy runs his fingers through his hair, especially when he’s not doing it consciously; like while thinking about something or to get the sweat off of his forehead after a workout session. This is incredibly sexy to look at for us women.
There’s no logical explanation for this.
It’s just one of those things that’s simply very appealing to female eyes.
I can’t give you a specific reason why. But what I can say is now that you know about it don’t start doing it all the time in hopes of appearing sexy.
Ruffling through your hair is sexy only when it’s done occasionally or else it will lose its aesthetic.
Finally, let’s move on to the last item on the list…
Before I tell you what it is, I must confess that this one’s a little advanced.
Probably only 5% of the male population can do this well. And only 1% are masters at this.
What I’m talking about is…
Bantering is the most attractive thing a guy does without knowing
Bantering means talking or exchanging remarks in a good-humored, teasing way.
And let me tell you this on behalf of ALL women…
A guy who can banter will always have an unfair advantage over every other guy.
Whether that’s online or in face-to-face interaction. Why is that?
Because playful, humorous banter is a sign of intelligence and confidence.
Plus, bantering also makes the interaction super fun and engaging for the girl.
When you add all those elements up, intelligent, plus confident plus fun, what you get is sexy.
Unfortunately, though in my 15+ years of helping men transform their dating lives, I’ve noticed that most men suck at bantering.
Most men hang on to boring conversation threads like “what do you do for work?” or “where did you grow up?” or “How was your weekend?”
And when women ask them stuff, they tend to answer it super logically and at face value.
There’s no playfulness, no fun, and no banter.
As a result, they appear very unattractive and even sexually repelling.
Their chances of “getting the girl” reduces drastically. On the other hand…
The few, lucky men who know how to banter get girls so effortlessly that it seems like the game is rigged in their favor.
As your personal wing girl, I want you to BE one of those few, lucky men who possess the superpower of bantering so you too can attract girls easily and effortlessly.
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Let me be your wing girl.
Marni