If you think you know the perfect thing to say you are wrong. The same lines over and over make you sound like a robot. You may not know what to say and when to say it. This guide can help you come up with conversation starters to speak to any woman.
One of the biggest questions I always get asked is… “What’s the best opening line?”
Everyone always wants to know the PERFECT thing to say at the PERFECT time to GUARANTEE that the girl will like you…
Reality check: if you had the PERFECT thing to say at EVERY moment… that would mean you needed to have hundreds of “perfect” lines all neatly sorted and organized in your head, ready to whip out at a moment’s notice.
“Oh, she said THAT, now I should say THIS!” Can you see the problem with this?
You would turn into a ROBOT!
And even though you would always know the “perfect” thing to say, you STILL wouldn’t create any attraction! Because no one wants to date a robot.
The truth is, the BEST thing to say at any given moment will always be spontaneous and spur-of-the-moment. You know that feeling when you’re just hanging out with your buddies, just joking around?
No one’s prepared any lines. But someone might say something, and the perfect funny thing to say just “shows up” in your head. You say it, perfectly timed (because it comes naturally) and everybody laughs!
It’s not rocket science.
And yet, this is scary to a lot of men.
They feel like if they’re not PREPARED, they risk “blowing it”… And this points to a deeper issue.You see, the REAL problem isn’t that you don’t have the right thing to say… It’s that you’re trying to impress her. As soon as you go from just enjoying yourself and having fun… to “trying to impress” and “needing to say the right thing”, it’s like you instantly BLOCK the naturally creative and funny part of your personality.
Remember: You DON’T have to impress anyone! You don’t have anything to prove. You’re already GOOD ENOUGH as you are. My advice? Be willing to say the WRONG thing! Stop worrying so much about what she’s going to think about you, and just have FUN!
And once you do that, you’ll quickly notice that you’ll get a LOT more attraction from women!
Suddenly you’re that guy who’s just fun to be around. Women will see that you’re a man on his path who’s not overly worried about getting approval from others. They can just hang out and talk to you without worrying about being judged. They’re happy to introduce their friends to you. A lot of people want to make this complicated…
But the truth is, it’s extremely simple.
You can literally say ANYTHING!
You can even say NOTHING! (For example, you could simply approach a girl with a high five! Like I said, it’s not rocket science!)
This stuff can seem contradictory at times but I guarantee you that once you learn what's going on behind-the-scenes… it isn't.
That's why I've created a whole “learning suite” about how to approach women. It's all about how to convey the best of your unique personality without being creepy.
Here's the link if you want to check it out:
https://www.winggirlmethod.com/approach-blueprint/
If you've been looking for a way to approach attractive women without having that icky feeling of fear… then you need to check this out.
I can't recommend it enough.
Here's the link again: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/approach-blueprint/
This really is a game-changer if you want to learn this stuff. It all starts with the approach!
Your Wing Girl,
Marni