You may have read that there are power words and phrases that will instantly spark attraction in women. That’s only partly true, and in this article, I’m going to give you something even more powerful.READ THIS if you want to attract women consistently.
One question I get on an almost daily basis is about what to actually say to attract women. Guys want to know what the specific words are they should use… The words that get us attracted and aroused enough to wanna date you… or even to drag you back to our bedroom.
And while there are certain things you can say to create this kind of attraction…
I want to encourage you to change your thinking slightly around this. The words themselves aren’t where the magic lies…
It’s that the words you use reveal your attitude and your beliefs.
And the right attitude and beliefs is what we REALLY become attracted to in a man. So if you find yourself wondering what to say to women… then a better question to ask yourself is what kind of attitude and beliefs do you want to communicate.
Once you’ve got those down, the right words tend to flow more freely and naturally. You won’t have to use any scripted lines… or have awkward silences because you don’t know what to say. The right words will come, and they’ll simply be an extension of your attitude and beliefs.
For example, you might have the attitude that you’ve very sure of yourself, yet you don’t take things too seriously. And your belief is that no woman is out of your league, no matter how hot she is.
If this is how you act and what you truly believe, that’ll come through in what you say.
And the way it’ll come across is through banter and playful flirting.
Because when you have that mix of attitude and beliefs, it’s just natural to communicate with women in that way. You’re simply expressing yourself genuinely and authentically. Which is why we find guys who know how to banter and flirt so damn sexy.
Not only is it fun, but we realize on an unconscious level that this is a man who is confident in who he is and not intimidated by a hot woman…
Therefore he must have had a lot of positive experiences with women in the past. Which means other women are into him, so he must be an attractive guy with something to offer. Like I said, we don’t think this consciously.
But this is what’s triggering the FEELING of attraction when we’re around a man like this. And it’s why learning how to banter with women is one of the greatest investments you can ever make in yourself.
Here’s what’s even more interesting, though.
I know that many guys don’t naturally have the sexy attitude and beliefs that women love… Which makes it hard for them to know how to banter properly when talking to women.
But after going through these exercises in the Banter Guide and putting it into action, guys naturally start to adopt the right attitude and beliefs. It’s pretty awesome to see the difference it makes in how a man feels about himself…
And the even bigger difference in how women now respond to him as a result.
The last female friend you’ll ever need,
Marni