So a little background on the story line of clip you are about to watch. The clip below is taken from a show that was on ABC Family (I know, I know, I watch cheesy TV) called Greek.
The guy in the video is named Dale and I totally forget the girls name cause she's not a main character. BUT Dale and blondie have been hooking up secretly for about a month.
She is embarrassed to tell people about Dale because he is considered a “nerd” (it's a college show) and she keeps saying how she's not turned on by him but likes sleeping with him.
So Dale finally puts the breaks on sleeping together because he doesn't want to be “closeted” any more. He's too good for that. At first, he didn't think he was because he was a nerd hooking up with a sorority girl. BUT now he respects himself to much and won't allow it anymore.
Anyway, the below video is an example of Dale owning his masculinity and totally turning blondie on, proving that she IS and can be attracted to him. When I watched this episode, I immediately thought of you and said “this is a good visual for him to see a man owning it and really taking the lead.”
I'm not sure if you felt what I felt when I was watching this…. because you are a man and probably not turned on by Dale 😉 BUT as a woman, I was totally turned on by his confident, masculine, strong attitude and LEADERSHIP.
Dale didn't please. He spoke up and lead and that was super sexy.
Now it's your turn to do the same thing and I'm here to help!