One of the easiest ways to last longer in bed is simply to choose the right and unique sex positions. Most stamina issues men face are partially due to picking the wrong positions that push you off the edge too quickly.
That's why I want to show you the nine best sex positions that guarantee to boost your stamina and help you last longer in bed. These positions are not only going to help you delay your own climax but will also improve your partner's experience because women absolutely love and crave these in the bedroom.
And unfortunately, most men don't even know about half of these moves. So firstly, I want to start off by saying that knowing these sex positions will give you a massive advantage going into the bedroom with any woman. Not only because it's going to help you last longer but also because of the confidence boost you'll have.
Knowing that you're unlikely to bust too quickly and when you're confident, just makes you a better lover. Knowing what positions you want to try, how to get into them, and how to enjoy them will make you a leader in the bedroom and women are extremely turned on by leaders in the bedroom.
In fact, leadership is # the 1 thing women crave in the bedroom. Most women want to let go and have a man take charge. And if you're able to do that, then she's definitely going to have an amazing time with you and she's going to be eager to come back for more.
Now, what determines whether a sex position will help you last longer or not comes down to one major factor and that's depth and thrust. So in simple words, you want a position that creates relatively shallow penetration since deep thrusting like what you do in doggy style can send most guys over the edge because it feels so good.
Apart from that, it's also great to do sex positions that encourage slow and steady sex over fast pounding. I mean, to be honest, nobody really loves fast pounding at least not all the time. And lastly, the best positions should also be relatively easy to get into and maintain so it doesn't disrupt the flow of things in the bedroom.
If it's too difficult, it's going to feel like a chore and not a pleasure. So with all of that in mind, here is a list that I've compiled of the nine best sex positions that will help you last longer and that your partner will thoroughly enjoy.
#1) Cowgirl
It's a pretty standard one to start with. So here is how you do it. You lie comfortably on your back, allow your partner to mount on top of you, straddle your hips, and then you insert your penis from this upright position she can then ride you like a cowgirl or like riding a ball. Whatever you know visually you want.
So how does this help? Well firstly, it's the easiest position for a man since all you have to do is lie down. Secondly, this position limits your ability to quickly thrust and vigorously thrust allowing for a slower session. Which is unlikely to push you off the edge too quickly. And lastly, this position will naturally involve deep grinding and lots of clitorial stimulation. Which is great for her but it's not too stimulating for you. So a perfect lazy position for you to try.
#2) Spooning
Here is how to do it. So both partners lie on their sides with your front pressing against her back like a spooning cuddle position. You're the big spoon and she's the little spoon and you ask your partner to separate her legs just a little bit and then you find her vagina with your hand and enter her from behind.
Here's how this helps. Once again, this position is a fairly easy one. The strokes available to you in this position will be very short. Keeping you from making those long wild thrusts that just push men over the edge. And the short strokes target her G-spot making it a great one for her. So you should focus on grinding your hips against your butt and consider stimulating her clitoris with your fingers.
If you're that coordinated, that would be great. This is likely to bring her to climax if you do it right and take your time with it. And if you can make her orgasm first, it's easier to feel good about your orgasm whenever it happens which is great.
#3) Side By Side
So here is how you do this. This is similar to spooning but you and your partner actually face each other. So lying on your sides face to face. Your partner lifts her free leg and wraps it around your hip, giving your hips access to her. And then, the reason this helps is that like spooning, this position also encourages shallow penetration that doesn't allow for much thrusting. Do you see a trend here?
So it's also really good for close intimacy and you can even make out or just take a little break and reconnect with each other in this position. So this position like spooning is also very simple. However, getting the right angle can require a little bit of hip-minute manipulation. Especially if your hips are different widths or lengths and you know of.
#4) The Cross
So here's how you do this. Both partners should be lying on their backs with her torso at a 90-degree angle to your torso. Her legs draped over your hips and her butt exposed to the front of your pelvis so thrust forward and enter her with your hips against the back of her thighs from above.
This position kind of looks like the letter X hence the name. And here's why it's so effective. There's not much range of motion for you to go nuts within this position so no deep thrusting and it's not easy to thrust uncontrollably when your hips are at rest. So there's no fast pounding. And lastly, it's a very easy position to hold and very stimulating for your partner. So all in all, it's a big win.
#5) The Lazy Dog
So here is how to do this. Doggy style is best reserved as the grand finale when having sex because the man is in control of thrusting depth and momentum on his side. Plus a great view. It's nearly impossible to last long. However, the lazy dog is a nice little twist on the doggy style. It involves both of you lying down with you on top of her. So think of this as like a missionary with your partner flipped over like spooning but face down.
Here's how it helps. The depth of thrust available to you is largely reduced as compared to the normal doggy style. Allowing you to have the fun of doggy style minus the intense stimulation that gets most men off fast. The only thing is that figuring out where to put your knees can be a challenge and getting our hips at the right angle to your hips for you to actually enter her.
Most women keep their hips lower than they need to be because sometimes it can hurt. So you may need to spend some time just finding out the correct alignment. But once it's done, it's a super easy position to hold.
#6) Girl On Top
This is super simple. All these are simple. Super simple. Similar to the cowgirl position, the woman climbs on top of you but lies chest to chest like an inverted missionary position. So this position allows the woman to envelop your penis deeply while restricting your thrust ability. This also allows her to enjoy the deep sense of fullness and she can grind her clit against your shaft without the rapid thrusting that causes you to lose control.
Similar to the cowgirl position, this also is a lazy position as she has to do most of the work. But just make sure to communicate with her if you're getting close and want her to slow down or take a break. Communication is key during sex.
#7) Sitting On a Chair
As the name suggests, do this position on a chair. Have her stand with her back facing you then lower into a seated position on your lap inserting your penis as she does. So this position like the girl on top also allows her to grind against your hips and enjoy it. Relatively deep penetration but without long or fast thrusts. So she's going to enjoy it thoroughly but you will not lose control and bust.
The sitting position also falls under the category of lazy sex positions. So this one is easy. So once again, in case you're getting close, let your partner know and ask her to slow down.
#8) Non-Penetrative Missionary
So think of this as a missionary but without penetration. So here is what to do. Lie on top of your partner as in a normal missionary but don't penetrate her. Instead, rub the back of your penis against her vaginal lips or clitoris. Kind of like teasing.
Now you might wonder what's the point of this but it's actually a fantastic trick to stimulate her without overstimulating yourself. Most people never think to try this form of outercourse but it can be a huge blessing for men who finish fast because there's still a lot of wetness and warmth. The sensation is focused on the less sensitive back of your penis. Not the front of the shaft and the head or the most orgasmic stimulation comes from.
So the chances of you getting off fast greatly reduces. She on the other hand absolutely loves it because she can grind her clit against the shaft quite vigorously and that is highly satisfying for a woman.
#9) Grinding Position
Missionary is one of the easiest positions to lose control of because you're doing all the thrusting and have access to deep penetration but like non-penetrative missionary, grinding missionary adds a great twist to it by requiring you to thrust your penis deep inside and leaving it there while you grind your hips against hers. So how does this help?
Well, without the long hard thrusts, it's easier to keep your penis from being overstimulated. Meanwhile, your partner will love the front action grinding because it rubs her clit while filling her fully. So it's a great experience for both of you and the best part is everyone knows missionary. It's extremely easy to do.
And that concludes the list of amazing sex positions that help you last longer and these should help you maximize your time in the bedroom while fully pleasuring your partner.
However, there's one thing you should know about women that most men don't. Women are much more likely to enjoy having sex with a man and reach orgasm if she feels emotionally connected to him because sex for women isn't just a physical experience. It is an emotional one. The better your emotional bond with a girl, the better sex you'll have with her, the more sex you'll have with her because she's going to keep coming back for it.
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