I’m gonna show you 9 different attraction triggers that make women want you.
If you’re tired of getting stuck in the friend zone… Getting ignored, ghosted or rejected by women… Or just not attracting the quality of women you really want… Then this article is for you.
These 9 attractive behaviors and habits I’m gonna show you can be used by ANY guy… Regardless of looks, height, age or status… And help you create a fun filled dating life — full of beautiful, high-quality women.
Here are the 9 attraction triggers that make beautiful women want you…
Trigger 1: Bring Non-Needy
The more you need her to like you, the less she will. If a woman starts to think that it’s important for you to be liked by her… If she senses that you’re trying too hard to impress her… And that you’ve placed a huge amount of value on HER opinion of you… There’s no way she’s gonna feel attracted to you.
The more attached you are to her opinion of you, the less attractive you are. Period. The guys who have most success with women are the ones who place a high value on themselves…. They have an unwavering belief that they’re good enough for ANY girl they meet… And no specific person’s opinion will change that.
You need to develop that same belief and hold it strong.
Trigger 2: Showing Your Time is Limited and Precious
Women are attracted to men who are busy doing things and living their lives. None of us want to be with a guy who’s got oceans of available time.
This means… You can’t be texting and calling her all day, every day. Meeting with her whenever she wants. And just being there for her all the time.
This will make sure that when you do “make the time” to text her, call her or meet with her… She appreciates it. She values the time you’re investing in her.
Remember — nothing that comes cheap and easy is ever valued. The time you invest on her cannot be cheap and easy to get. Especially in the early stages of dating.
So get busy. Stay invested in your own path. You’d be surprised at how much more appealing that makes you to women.
Trigger 3: Being Playful
Doesn’t matter if she’s 20 or 60, women are always drawn to fun. Even if you consider yourself to be a serious guy, you need to build the habit of letting loose and joking around a bit.
You don’t need to be all jokes, all the time, and don’t need to be a pro-level comedian either… You just need to show her that you don’t take things too seriously…
That you can have a laugh and enjoy yourself. That lighthearted, playful vibe is one of the strongest attraction triggers you can tap into.
In fact, this alone can help you have great success with women.
Trigger 4: Sticking to Your Guns
Don’t bend your reality to please her. Don’t change your opinions or compromise your values and standards to make it more aligned with hers. Women are always more attracted to men who stick to their guns.
Most “nice guys” get this completely wrong. They think having a difference of opinion with a woman will kill their chances with her… Or that she'll be turned off by them if they don’t have things in common…
But the truth is… Despite the fact that you don’t agree on something with her… She will be drawn to you more and respect you… if you’re willing to stick to your guns and don’t back down.
This doesn’t mean you’ve to argue with her… Or convince her that your views are the right ones…
This means you share your reality with her as is… and let the chips fall where they may. That’s the attitude that makes you wildly attractive.
Trigger 5: Being Bold
Fortune favors the bold. And it’s completely true in the realm of dating and attraction.
So many guys ask me why women go for bad boys and jerks who treat them like shit… And overlook the guys who are actually good for them in the long term…
The answer is… Because these so-called bad boys and jerks go for what they want.
If they like a woman, they’ll ask for her number and invite her on a date. They’ll flirt with her without being apologetic about it. They won’t try to hide the fact that they’re sexually interested in her.
On dates, they’ll escalate physically, go for the kiss, and invite her back to their place if things are going well. I often tell guys that… 90% of success with women just comes from being bold.
The guys who make bold moves reap the biggest rewards. Yes, they fail a lot too. And not everything goes their way all the time.
That bad boy or asshole you see who has a 10/10 girlfriend… Or who’s sleeping around with model quality women… That guy has been turned down by more women than most average guys ever talk to.
These guys fail more than you know. But they’re still bold and unapologetic about what they want. And they end up with a dating life full of amazing, drop dead gorgeous women.
Trigger 6: Making Her Feel Special But Not Idolized
This really comes down to how you show her your appreciation… Or how you compliment her.
Most guys give a beautiful woman generic compliments… Most of which are about her looks. This makes her feel idolized and put on a pedestal… But they won’t make her feel special.
That’s why… Instead of giving her generic compliments like…
- “You’re beautiful”
- “You look lovely”
- “You have gorgeous eyes”
Pick one specific and memorable compliment. A compliment that feels tailor made for her.
You’ll only be able to do this if you talk to her with a curious mind… And notice something impressive about her.
You need to have an internal realization about what’s amazing about her… And then put that into words.
Trigger 7: Being Unpredictable
Predictably is the enemy of attraction… Especially in the early stages of courtship.
If she can predict what you’re gonna say next, how you’re gonna react to something or behave in general… And she’s almost always right about it…
Like it or not, she’ll start to get bored and resent you. So you need to be a bit more mindful of your patterns.
- Are you talking about the same stuff all the time?
- Are you taking her on the same types of dates?
- Are you always spending time with her and not giving her any space to miss you?
Just being more conscious of these things… And having the intention to mix things up will make you more unpredictable… And keep her on her toes.
Trigger 8: Inspiring Her
She needs to feel like she has to step up her own game when she’s with you. This doesn’t require you to make any grand gestures. And I’m not asking your to be the next Elon Musk or Steve Jobs.
Just by showing her that you believe in yourself and have faith in where you’re going in life… And then recognizing and encouraging her own potential… You’ll inspire her to be better. And that feeling is irresistibly attractive.
In fact, she’ll start to look up to you and develop a very deep admiration for you, if you do this.
Trigger 9: Having Expectations of Her
Here’s the big idea… Have a clear list of what you want from a woman… And what lines you will not let her cross.
Most men will accept and even reward bad behavior from a woman… just because she looks hot.
However, if she knows that you’ll just keep taking her shit… And she can do anything she wants… She won’t respect you. And if she doesn’t respect you, she won’t be attracted to you.
In fact, there’s no line, technique or trick that will help you get back a woman after she has lost respect. That’s something you should always keep in mind.
Establish boundaries and let her know what you except of her… even if it upsets her in the moment. That’s always a better outcome than losing her respect.
And if she chooses not to abide by your boundaries, you have to be willing to walk away. Many times when you enforce your boundaries, women might even push back and test you resolve… You cannot back down from that.
She needs to know that you’re clear about what you want. And you won’t tolerate misbehaving. That’s the only way she’ll respect you long term. And the only way you’ll maintain her attraction for you.
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