Relationships all around the world demonstrate affection in many different ways. Some relationships display affection more publicly while others share their moments only behind closed doors. When looking for a relationship, the average individual hopes that not only will their relationship be romantic, but that there is plenty of intimacy involved, both in and out of the bedroom.
Throughout the years, views on intimacy in the bedroom have evolved tremendously. In previous generations, couples rarely discussed their sex life with their peers, whereas now individuals are more open to sharing tips on how to have a better sex life. As a result, we have learned how each form of intimacy goes hand and hand.
What Do We Look For in Being Intimate?
What types of intimacy in a relationship are we looking for when receiving and displaying affection to our partner? Here are some ways that intimacy is shown in committed couples and how they work together:
Connect Emotionally
Emotional intimacy is a crucial aspect of displaying affection with someone. Displays of this kind can look as simple as doing daily check-ins with your partner, giving words of affirmation, or spending quality time together. Connecting emotionally in your relationship is special as it gains trust and a deeper connection with your partner.
Be There Mentally
Being there mentally while dating is just as significant as being there emotionally. This means that you are engaged in listening to whatever is going on in their life, both good and bad. Sometimes that means being a safe space for the one that you love to be vulnerable or taking the time to help them handle a situation they might be going through. A great example could be communicating and connecting from a spiritual aspect. This isn’t just sitting and discussing religious views but stimulating closeness by sharing poignant moments together. Examples of this can be going on a hike and enjoying the view together at the top or having discussions that deepen the understanding of one another.
Get Physical
This by far is the most obvious type of intimacy. In fact, it’s one of the most important aspects and benefits of being with the one you care for. Physical intimacy can be expressed in many ways, you have the basics such as holding hands, cuddling, and of course, what goes down in the bedroom. Sexual intercourse does not only give you an opportunity to express affection to your partner. It can also strengthen your bond on a new level.
Communication is just as important as the physical acts themselves. Communicating openly about physical intimacy is important to discuss with your partner so you each are aware of what your likes and dislikes are, especially with intercourse. Doing this will not only improve your sex life but also help you both maneuver through physical obstacles you and your partner may face. These obstacles may include erectile dysfunction, pain during sex, or any other sexual health-related concerns you may have. This topic can be uncomfortable to discuss but doing so will allow you both understanding and the confidence to seek medical advice so that you both can get back to sexually thriving in your relationship.
Maintain Good Communication
Never stop communicating with your partner. If you want to maintain a healthy relationship both in and out of the bedroom, communication is key. Be clear in what you want in your relationship by being clear on your expectations and needs. This can be handled in a variety of ways such as sharing and setting boundaries, making sure you are staying open to feedback from your partner and listening well by giving your undivided attention to each other. If you follow these simple pieces of advice, there will be less conflict and your communication will only grow each day.
Keep all of these thoughts in mind when you’re getting into a new relationship or trying to improve the relationship that you are already in. It’s going to be very helpful and beneficial for both of you in the long run. Maybe you will learn something new about each other and every day can be a new adventure!