There are so many men and guys who consider that being a pick up artist PUA for short and choose to use manipulation tactics to get women. In my opinion this is NO GOOD. No good for you, no good for women and no good for dating in general.
As a woman, I know these manipulation tactics work. They work extremely well, but where does that leave women? It leaves them in a state of insecurity and fear and you know what that mean for great men? It means that great men are going to have to work harder and harder to get past all the new boundaries and barriers women are putting up to protect themselves.
In my opinion, real men do not need to lie to get women. What they need is to learn how to be strong, confident, quality men who get the girl without lines, routines and tactics.
So how do you learn to be strong and confident without these lines, routines and tactics. The truth is, you don't. Sounds like I'm tricking you right?
I had an eye opening conversation with one of my guy friends recently who also happens to be a top Attraction Coach. He and I got into a discussion about Attraction Skills and how as coaches we forget how difficult the beginning stages can be. He reminded me that using a system as “training wheels” during the beginning stages of learning a new skill is essential. He said to me “Marni I totally agree with you that men should not be aiming to become robotic douchebags and using lines, rules and routines are bullshit, but all people need something when they are first learning a skill. Once they learn the basics and develop their own style, they can throw out the old system created by someone else and replace it with their own.”
After hearing his point of view, I thought about it then realized how true it was. Men do need something in the beginning stages of learning the skills of attraction. Something that they could use while getting over those first few humps, that they could later get rid of once they got more comfortable.
Which is why I created my program How To Become A Man Women Want. It's the training wheels that every man needs to get over that first hump when learning the skills of attraction. It won't teach you how to become a jerk that women are crushed by on a daily basis. It teaches you how to become a strong, confident man that gets everything he wants with women while maintaining integrity and class.
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This scene was taken from an episode of “How I Met Your Mother” on CBS