Here it is!! My step by step guide on how to ask a woman out! You are going to thank me for this 😉
Continuing on with my story I was telling you about my friend. Here is our email correspondence below along with my commentary on how to ask out a girl properly:
Email from friend:
Hey X,
I hope you're enjoying your summer.
We never actually speak when we see each other, and I think we should change that.
Let me know if you want to grab a coffee or a drink some time.
Y (My Friend)
My response to him:
Did you send this yet? Please say you didn't. Its sweet but it has no oomph to it to get a girl riled up. It can be stronger and more attractive. Seems a little soft. Again it's good but it can be better.
Marni's Commentary (to you):
Woman are at their peak of attraction when they have the opportunity to feel their most feminine. My friends email was not terrible, it was nice. But there was nothing to latch onto. No excitement but really sweet. You want to offer a woman something that she basically has no choice but to say YES to. Not because she was forced to say yes, but because she was intrigued and excited.
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Friends Response:
I could just say:
Hey X,
Would you like to meet for a coffee one day?
…But I put in the other filler and formality because she doesn't actually know me. The opening summer stuff is there as polite throat clearing before moving on to the point.
Y (My Friend)
My Response to him:
Don't be polite. Also say what YOU want. Try it that way.
Marni's Commentary (to you):
I find that when guys are trying to “be polite” they end up coming off as saps, wimps or suck ups. No good, not attractive and does not get the reaction you are looking for from a woman. The more masculine and direct you can be with a woman the better. This does not mean be a jerk, an a**hole etc.
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Friends Response
X,
Got the wave in the Path last week, but we never actually speak when we see each other. Let's change that!
Do you have time for a coffee or a drink this week?
Y (My friend)
My Response:
So much better. Love the let's change that part but get rid of the exclamation point. Needs one more tweak, but getting there. Does it feel better to you?
Try I WANT as part of what you say. I want to get to know you better or I want to take you out or I want to change that.
Marni's Commentary (to you):
In the beginning stages of dating it's about YOU. What YOU want, what YOU are looking for. You do not know HER yet, so the person to take care of is you. Therefore do not be ashamed or fear that you are being too obvious with what you are asking for. Being DIRECT AND HONEST will always get you the best results. YOU want to date her. YOU want to sleep with her. YOU want to go for coffee. So say it. Say what you want 🙂
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Friends Response:
Got the wave in the Path last week, but we never actually speak when we see each other. I want to change that.
Do you have time for a coffee or a drink this week?
Y
Marni's Response:
Love this!!! Send 🙂
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Friends Response:
Subject: I Owe You One
This is what she wrote back to me 10 minutes after I sent:
Hey Y,
yes the Path seems to be such a social place these days! I am always running into familiar faces. I'd be down for a coffee break this week – any day but Thursday works for me!
Marni's Response:
Yay!!!! Send me your response before you write back.
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Friends Response:
Ok great, let's do Friday. I had to run out of the office this afternoon and only just got home. I'll tell you about it Friday, but it will likely make tomorrow super busy for me.
Are you able to get away 2:30ish Friday?
– I feel bad because I did not get her email till just now which is 4 hours after she wrote. Should I just write tomorrow.
Marni's Response:
Nooo!!!!! I hope you didn't sent that. You are pouncing, throwing up on her. You can tell her about your great day when you see her. No need now. In response to your last comment, you have a life, you are busy, you work hard, therefore all your energy does not need to suddenly shift direction for this girl. You will get back to her when you get a chance to.
Wait until tomorrow and write a direct email saying you will meet her at XYZ at this time. Done. Direct ='s Sexy. Lots of words and fluff ='s a future of her crying on your shoulder about other guys. Get my point.
Marni's Commentary (to you):
My friend took my advice and they are now on their date. Listen, the first email my friend wrote to this girl may have gotten a response, it may have even gotten him on a date. It was not a horrible email but it wasn't attractive. It was nice and polite.
My friend has a habit of caring too much how he appears to women and goes over the top nice with the ones he likes. This email exchange coupled with a confident, comfortable, genuine character at coffee ='s masculine, attractive, sexy to a woman. It gets him the response, the date and the butterflies in the girls stomach.
Now, you might be thinking: “Okay, this is great for asking a girl out, but what then?”
Well, stay tuned because we'll be getting into that within the next few emails…the next of which will be covering how to read a woman's body language and know when she is into you. So be looking out for it…
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